venezualien
New member
Hi y'all.
So I'm a 20 yr-old bisexual AMAB (not sure if I'm a 'man' though) and I've been struggling a bit with the concepts of polyamory, and I guess also sex positivity, if this is the place to discuss that too. I semi-recently left a monogamous relationship that attempted monogamous --> polyamorous shift, but it just wasn't working out on both sides.
I generally have issues with how to structure polyamory, and I'm scared of opening up to people about it and not being desired for it. I'm in search of poly communities to learn more and sort of immerse myself in other people who can reinforce and normalize polyamory for me. Also, I don't know how common it is for poly people to deal with this, but I do struggle a bit with jealousy, and it's a bitch and a half because I've also in the past been very open to the idea of my partner seeing other people physically (although romantically is still a bit of a struggle because of ingrained monogamous standards about love and expression). Just a whole lot to sort out and it's hard to find poly people to talk about this sexual and romantic structure openly. Maybe the anonymity will help out, who knows? I'd be so grateful for anyone who wants to talk and link up a little bit!
So I'm a 20 yr-old bisexual AMAB (not sure if I'm a 'man' though) and I've been struggling a bit with the concepts of polyamory, and I guess also sex positivity, if this is the place to discuss that too. I semi-recently left a monogamous relationship that attempted monogamous --> polyamorous shift, but it just wasn't working out on both sides.
I generally have issues with how to structure polyamory, and I'm scared of opening up to people about it and not being desired for it. I'm in search of poly communities to learn more and sort of immerse myself in other people who can reinforce and normalize polyamory for me. Also, I don't know how common it is for poly people to deal with this, but I do struggle a bit with jealousy, and it's a bitch and a half because I've also in the past been very open to the idea of my partner seeing other people physically (although romantically is still a bit of a struggle because of ingrained monogamous standards about love and expression). Just a whole lot to sort out and it's hard to find poly people to talk about this sexual and romantic structure openly. Maybe the anonymity will help out, who knows? I'd be so grateful for anyone who wants to talk and link up a little bit!