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Ohiogrl

Ohiogrl

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Eeeek!

Okay, I have a pretty dominating personality when it comes to finding new people for my bf. That's out of concern, of course, as I mentioned in my other post.

But I am gonna skip talking about him for a minute, because I just realized something. I am good with polyamory and all. I want it. But I'm talking to an old friend right now, with whom I have been intimate before, and she and her new hubby want me to come visit "like that." It just occurred to me how shy I am when it comes to others propositioning me. Like very. Turn bright red, stumble over my words, don't know what to say, kinda shy.

And since I am moving away, and haven't dated on my own in years, this is something I need to get over. I am not even sure how it happened. I used to have balls of freaking steel! Where did they go? How did this happen?!

More importantly, what am I going to do about it?

I am not happy to discover this fact about myself. :mad:
 
If you hadn't discovered it, you couldn't address it. So I'd say you're still ahead of the game, since self-awareness is key to finding a resolution to such things.
 
Those balls of steel: you've prolly still got 'em. They might be a li'l rusty, is all. Find 'em, polish 'em up a little. You'll be fine.
 
Welcome to the club! I've been this way for years now. My wife is the talker/communicator. She is very open and social. I don't even know how to introduce myself. But I'm getting better. And as I'm opening up to more and more people, the women aren't so taken aback when I ask them out. :p Of course, none of them have taken me up on it yet. But I'll keep asking.

I had one lady say, "I don't think your wife would appreciate that!" I told her, "You might be surprised. She's actually fine with it." So she said, "Well, I don't do wives." I smiled and said, "I can respect that." And I left it at that. Now, since this conversation, this woman has been a lot more talkative with me. Not overly so, but more talkative, for sure.

So, just be more open. ;)
 
I should have seen this coming. I was talking to someone from here yesterday about how I got all freaked out about guys checking me out at Comic Con. But I figured, it was mostly the amount of them doing so! That can be a bit daunting. So, understandable. But I know this girl! We have already played Acrobats in the Bedroom, so why did I get all nervous? I really caught myself off guard. Glad I did though, before I get moved, and out in the middle of my brand-new life, and end up sitting home with my cats out of fear. LOL.

Thanks for the support! I was just a bit freaked out. Definitely going to have to work on this. haha. (Seriously though! WTH? LMAO!!!!)

Sadly, I am going to have to turn her and new hubby down. They live an hour away and I just don't have the time to go spend with them. My move date is coming up soon, and I have too much to do. =(
 
TL4everu2 said:
Welcome to the club! I've been this way for years now. My wife is the talker/communicator. She is very open and social. I don't know how to introduce myself....But I'm getting better....and as I'm opening up to more and more people, the women aren't so taken aback when I ask them out. Of course, none of them have taken me up on it yet...but I'll keep asking. LOL I had one lady say "I don't think your wife would appreciate that!" I told her, "You might be surprised. She's actually fine with it." So she said "Well, I don't do wives." I smiled and said, "I can respect that." And I left it at that. Now, since this conversation, this woman has been a lot more talkative with me. Not overly so, but more talkative, for sure.

So, just be more open.
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It's cool you are at least to the point of asking someone out, though! I don't think I could do that yet for a while. LOL. I'm a total nerd. I just get rambling on about Battle Star Galactica or something. It's ridiculous.
 
Ohiogrl said:
Its cool you are at least to the point of asking someone out though! I don't think I could do that yet for a while. LOL. I'm a total nerd. I just get rambling on about Battle Star Galactica or something. Its ridiculous.
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There's a BSG exhibit at the Sci-Fi museum in Seattle until March.
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ImaginaryIllusion said:
There's a BSG exhibit at the Sci-Fi museum in Seattle until March.
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OMG I know!!!! I want to go soooo bad! This move is absolutely DRAINING me of my money though so I am unfortunately going to miss it. :(

What is flag on the play?
Is that a sports thing? I don't get it. :confused:
 
Derbylicious said:
Are you suggesting new places to go get hit on? I went, no one hit on me LOL
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Oh you went? I am sooo jealous! I hope you took pictures! I would love to see them!
 
Ah, okay. I don't mind, though. I didn't expect this subject to get too long. I was just having a minor freak-out moment. o_O
 
Derailment of a topic is something that some of us have come to love about this forum :D
 
Derbylicious said:
Derailment of a topic is something that some of us have come to love about this forum.
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I used to be a mod elsewhere, and it was a huge no-no for us. 🫤 Do I need to worry?
 
Ohiogrl said:
I used to be a Mod elsewhere and it was a huge no-no for us. 🫤 Do I need to worry?
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Not at all. It happens often. And often ends up well. :p

Part of the reason I got into drag racing. Ride her hard, and lick her in the end. :ROFLMAO:

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Back on topic:

So while you are going on about Battlestar Galactica, slip in a "Hey, we should go out for dinner sometime and discuss this further." Add a wink and the deal is sealed! ;)

So, when you get to where you're moving, wanna go out for a bite to eat? Or possibly go kayaking with my wife and me? ;)

See? That simple.
 
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::blushes like mad::

(Dang! Gonna have to get over that!)

Sure, food sounds fun. I am crazy afraid of water though. 🫤

You will have to come to me, as I am unable to drive due to my disability. We can talk when I get settled? Always good to have friends in the area! I only know one person down there.
 
Well, I'm a bit further south. But we get up that way every now and then. ;)

And we would be more than happy to help you get over your fear of water. By using life vests. ;)

Oh, and the jokester side of me asks: How, if you are afraid of water, do you shower? :p
 
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