BoringGuy

I do not think your experiment is mean or bad. It is true. Have you ever heard of the superstition that everything happens in 3's? All goods things and bad things come in threes. I like to believe that, because when its on a bad cycle, you know you're almost through with the bad and will soon be back to the good.

I am superstitious and this is one of the reasons I don't shout from the rooftops how great my life is. It's when you think everything is finally perfect once and for all that the universe reminds you something you thought was important never even existed in the first place.

I think I've observed that when people go on the internet (forums, facebook, blogs) and gush about how wonderful their lives are to the point that I'm reaching for the Pepto bottle every other sentence, that the shit is about to hit the fan and things are about to get really messy in the most unpleasant sense of the word. I am truly sorry if people don't like this theory, but whenever someone comes on here and complains that they never read anything happy or good, only problems, I think, "Everybody has problems. if you tell me you have no problems, you're either exaggerating, or you are about to have a rug pulled out from under you." I challenge anyone reading this to do a little experiment: watch for these types of situations and see if you notice the same thing. Of course, I have just created experimental bias by telling you what to look for, but this isn't really supposed to be a scientific study. Just saying - I'm not making this up.

We are on our anniversary weekend vacation right now and just had hawt secks again. I'm telling you all this for those who complain that they only hear sob stories and negative things about non-monogamous relationships. Of course it's just the two of us together in a room so it isn't that odd for people celebrating an anniversary. But i almost don't believe the sex is better and better every time. I sometimes think about other people during sex with Spouse but lately i've been imagining Spouse fucking their other partner.. Writing about it right now is making me twitch.. Gotta go~

Today is my and Spouse's 10-year anniversary of being legally married. Next week it's our 13-year anniversary of getting together. Spouse is working this weekend, so next weekend we are going to a clothing-optional B&B for some R&R. It is also Spouse's 1-year-ish anniversary with their Other Partner, and for good measure, I have been "with" my Other Partner on-and-off for *25* years (we have no specific date though)!

How Boring is that? Pretty Boring, if you ask me... but then again I don't have much else going on, so this is pretty exciting after all.

Yawn.

interesting argument don't worry you will not be harmed (lol just kidding you are cool)

p.s hey first visitor message from a visitor! congrats

I like to self-message. It's very autodidactic.

I'm boring myself. tra la la