Recent content by DoraTheExplora

Thank you. This is essentially what I have done. I asked her how she would feel about me bringing particular things up with him, and we have discussed what is and isn't okay, so that feels like a good way forward for now.

Thanks, all. It's a few things, but not things I would have known without having spoken to her, so even if I don't say we have talked, it will be clear we have. Specifically, he is: Asking for help wording messages to me, which a) is making Meta feel uncomfortable (she has addressed this...

I get on really well with my meta, who my partner lives with. In the course of a conversation, she has shared some things that are linked to both of our relationships that I would like to address with my partner, but I know that to do so would cause tension between them. Any advice to navigate...

I've been married for 20yrs and currently in my 2nd poly relationship. My partner is also married (14yrs) and both spouses are open to other partners. We have only been together for a few months but I'm going down a rabbit hole of what does this look like long term. This is the first time I've...

Thank you, I'll take a look. I should have said that we are about 6 months into talking, researching, etc. I will absolutely take on board the comments about maybe being a bit overly-excited. I do recognise that in myself and am working to adjust that, so it's a helpful reminder.

My husband and I have been happily married for 17 years and together for over 20 years. I've never felt so connected and strong in our relationship as I do right now. We got married and had kids young, and now that they are growing up, I feel like there's space to reclaim ourselves a bit more...