Recent content by drgnfly

yes anytime lying and deceitfulness is used to break something agreed upon would be considered cheating. Everything else said just shows his character.

I agree that the success of poly depends on the people within the marriage. When we opened our marriage it was a more a response to a few minor issues we had within it. While I doubt that those issues would have broke the marriage, they were making some aspect's unpleasant. At that time i had...

Hello And Welcome to the sight, I hope you find what you are looking for here, and that your post's go better than the other one you started. Unfortunately your a little far for a casual play dates. I have found that most people here do not seem interested in hookup's. There is a place you can...

Lol, it sound's like she want's much more than that, but if this is what she need's in her poly then it's ok. Sorry to hear what you are going through. I do have a good story about a girl who we (me and my wife) loved. It's long, but the ending goes like: She woke up in our bed on a...

From what i read here I'm not sure that what they really want is called a unicorn, or even poly. To me they want some type of submissive that they can control on their (or her) terms, use and abuse, then shelve until the next. While there is nothing wrong with that if consensual, I do not think...

Hello Leetah, shade and sweet water to you, I have a close friend that has anxiety and depression, and get's panick attack's. She can take dramatic turn's quickly. The "I suck" seems to be a common theme. Sometimes there are trigger's, sometimes nothing seems to cause it. Counseling is always a...

You forgot we also all have Italian grandmother's, wear stained wifebeater's, and drive Iroc Z"s. :D

True, But VioletLight reinforces my feeling's that their arrangement was not normal. Plus, this thread did go off topic. I appreciate everyone who has responded so far, thank you.

Hello LRP It seems many poly people are into geekstuff. I also like Star Trek and Doctor Who. I enjoyed Firefly and Serenity as well, but do not understand the following it has built (I think there is also now a comic book based on the series). It's been years since i played D&D, it seems to...

Hello and welcome to the sight. From the looks of thing's you will fit in well here. :)

Ah yes, I have friend's and have had family with diabetes. And yes it is a serious issue if not under control. I do agree that there should be a way to tell if needed (like a medic alert bracelet, they are lifesavers) or maybe someone who knows of any serious issue one may encounter if something...

I have been reading up when possible, Even if my adventure's into kink do not become extensive, education never goes to waste. I am not sure what role i will fit in, or what play I would do outside my already formed relationship's. My FWB's interest gives me an opportunity to try something new I...

I was thinking exactly the same thing when i read this.

I agree with GalaGirl, take the month off, Rest. It's suck's your girlfriend's have been taken over. Like you said it seems like high school, you made it through school once, there is no need to go back to that if you choose not to. Good luck on your poly meetup, let us know how it goes. I...

Yes I think it will be good idea to ask before friend requesting, especially since my User name is different as well. The requirement a request goes through their master, dom, ect is something i think would be stated in a person's profile, I will definitely have to check this protocol. I will...