elliekay83

Also, this forum is way more elite than some other options with very little exception, which I don't need to address.

So... I am "glad" to share that I am exploring more poly-spaces, and even was assured that my s*xting ability is still in good shape. But it makes me realize that I don't simply want s*exting, s*x and kinky bulls**ts. Knowing what you want, often mismatches what you get!

Okay! I have a trust issue with straight men, beyond attraction and desire. I don't want to explain further or whine about it. I really need a descent, non-perfection-obsessed pan! Why is it so hard to meet Pan and Poly at the same time?

Met a lot of overconfident men, who sound like they can bring you to cloud 9, but... really? Do they have the patience to allow me to build up the intimate momentum and to open up, as I desire... I have a lot of things I want to try and do, but sadly, it's not that easy.

I am not that easy when it comes to physical interactions. I have all sorts of hot scenarios in my mind, written down in some spaces, but when it comes to trust - I am so AvPD! I want to try it badly, but I am not sure that the partner knows what to do or how to deal with my "I don't need to climax" motto!

I thought that polyamory can be related to romantic feelings towards others, not only hooking around and telling your husband "It was amazing! We bonded with that person!".

I feel comfortable and a bit safe in posting on my "wall". But sadly the characters are limited, we know. I was absent for a bit of a long time, dealing with not very fun common stuff. Will love to look around and see what I can learn.

Most importantly, I need someone else to be okay with my physical flaws...small and not that small (no I am not a hunchback with 25 fingers and a snake tongue LOL). And yes, I have some inner flaws as all of us!

I am looking for friends, as well, because I get that my "dream guy portrait" sounds a bit too much...

So, it's nice to meet you, friends, or more! 4/4

Someone who loves a good chat, maybe a little flirt, wine, a bit of honesty but not cruelty. If he is always searching to look beyond the stereotypes and the concepts that divide and pick us against each other, that will be the best...
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All I am searching for is someone who is not obsessed with looks (because I am not beautiful) and someone who is pansexual, explores beyond borders and limits themselves to raw attractions. It's better if he loves to read, and write, don't mind some geek stuff, don't say "I don't like drama", because this means that he causes it and then can't take the consequences, most of the time.
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Hello,

My name is Michelle, Ellie or Elle, for short. 41. Old for most of you. I live in Catalonia, Spain, but I am not Spaniard or fluent in Spanish. Married. I am not curious about my polyamory, I am just looking further to explore it with a decent man, parallel to my marriage—the mix between friends-with-benefits and soulmates (LOL, so cliche I know).
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