Recent content by freakyfa

Random thought; I don’t object to mutually agreed-upon casual relationships, but I loathe being referred to as “fun”. I’m a human being, not just a plaything.

Andddd I think I may have been ghosted.😩

The Internet takes us to some strange places. I was randomly Googling for roommate arrangements and found this nifty little treatise on the structure and social impact of relationship modalities, specifically monogamy https://communitiesnotcouples.com/ Just to be clear, I’m horrified by their...

Hmm, good point. Some people desire space after a scene even if it went well. Judging by his demeanor and words afterward it was a positive experience.

Thank you for your perspective. I never thought of a possible imbalance of NRE. Knowing myself, I tend to form strong attachments early and when I feel that isn’t reciprocated enough my insecurities start to well up. This proclivity toward self-doubt in relationships is something I’m working on...

Even though I still don’t necessarily agree with the term itself, I can see how it might have parallels to jealousy. It requires some introspection and thanks for the recommendation!

Hello all. I posted in this forum some months ago. Life and COVID got in the way, but I won’t bore you with the details. All our lives have been upended with the pandemic and the world’s current state of affairs. Anyway, I matched with someone on a site very recently and we met a couple of days...

I do have a Fetlife. Even though I’m surrounded by other kinky people it’s been very much a difficult process finding sincere subs who aren’t just horny, flaky, or playing at submission when they really are Dominants.😔

Sigh. When it comes to dating I’m facing an impossible dilemma and an uphill battle. Do I value BDSM/kink over a potential FMM triad? Should I try to seek both arrangements? Should I just cut my losses and find an ordinary vanilla guy? Romance isn’t easy when you have non-mainstream sexual...

Thanks to all who have answered so far! I’ve definitely taken everyone’s perspective under consideration and I feel better knowing that I’m not approaching these feelings at a bad angle. I’ll try to be as conscientious and realistic as possible when mapping out my future with others in it.

But is it a bad thing? I’m asking in earnest because I honestly do not know. I understand that people are whole human beings and more than wank fodder for me. I don’t mean to reduce anyone to that. It just seems that this is an appealing life path for me. I can imagine that it takes A LOT of...

I’ve often imagined what it would actually be like to have two bi husbands or perhaps practice swinging with just one bi male partner of mine. Besides all the extra love, the one other appealing aspect of this arrangement is that I find it very sexually arousing. Something about men loving and...

Why thank you! It’s good to be here.😊

Thank you! More and more I’m learning that sexuality is one big gray area and I don’t have to fit into anyone’s narrow prescriptions of what is right and proper.

Hi, I’m freakyfa. *waves awkwardly* I’m a single, straight, 29-year-old female and after much feisty, internal debate over the years I have realized that I most likely inhabit some kind of weird gray area between mono and poly. Truthfully though, I have never acted on my deepest feelings and...