freakyfa
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I’ve often imagined what it would actually be like to have two bi husbands or perhaps practice swinging with just one bi male partner of mine. Besides all the extra love, the one other appealing aspect of this arrangement is that I find it very sexually arousing. Something about men loving and being intimate with other men titillates me.
The conflict is when I think about the intersection of social justice, feminism, and LGBTQIA rights. I’m uneasy because on the surface it seems as if I’m using someone’s queer identity as a vehicle for my fetishes even though I mean no offense by it. I’m only trying to act on my desires in good faith, but am I sexually objectifying others when I think this way?
The conflict is when I think about the intersection of social justice, feminism, and LGBTQIA rights. I’m uneasy because on the surface it seems as if I’m using someone’s queer identity as a vehicle for my fetishes even though I mean no offense by it. I’m only trying to act on my desires in good faith, but am I sexually objectifying others when I think this way?