She was playing . Looking for attention. Chatted the next (this) morning. All LOL’s and oh I’m just finding myself , no apologies, no talk of hey I still would enjoy your company. I told her the offer stands and you know where to find me “lol ok” .
I really don’t think women respect men...
I got to talking with someone on a dating app while I was manning my shop during business hours. We found out we lived very close together. Probably within a few miles, at most.
We both were on the same page of being focused on our careers, and casual dating was far as things planned for our...
We do both actually because we do see the “Poly couples” followed by (almost always) staring with Bi female and Couples (couples as in making sure he gets his too)
Or shared profile we definitely get a lot of “would she join us” messages and the very few times we tried to meet a couple in a...
Just own it…. If you lie because you get more matches, and you enjoy that attention/engagement/practice? That’s fine. I’m not judging…..
I don’t think that’s the intention I was going for but I can see your point on it , unintended consequences of just taking a different approach. Their seems...
I sort of did it as a experiment for my partners curiosity has well . I had a profile with the same exact pictures all of me and a few of us. Nothing shirtless or provocative and made it clear we are a Polyamarous couple , tried to add in that we weren’t unicorn hunting for a 3way experience but...
We just might give that okay Cupid one a try . Trust me I see the messages my partner gets daily . It’s a real shame and I just don’t know or understand when the tides shifted that how men started acting on these sites became the norm . It’s exhausting for her and us
We were on one called...
I agree with you but as my partner has said and actually a few single women agreed as a Male on a dating site the odds are automatically not stacked in your favor, unfortunately we are in a world where people have already made a judgment about you based on your skin color or sexuality . And I...
Morally I known it’s wrong , I’m justifying it but I’m also very surprised how many women have has positive things to say about my approach .
A lot have agreed if I was upfront from the start I would of never got the time of day but they enjoyed the time together and me being a gentlemen. They...
so I’m just guessing like a lot of you singles / couples, we use Dating apps . Obviously not the best way to meet likeminded people (plenty of unicorn hunters) but with our jobs and professional lives it just is a matter of time and convenience
We have a shared profile, well as she has her own...
You’re 100% correct . I really think what men view as Polyamarous (really just a open / swinger relationship) is pushed on the female partner and she’s just going along with it to keep him happy
Sex is already easy enough to get so going after Polyamarous couples just tells us they have no...
I’ve been enjoying life with my female partner . We are both openly bisexual and we are not a “Closet Poly” couple .
We are also open to all people (not just MFF like a lot of dudes have wet dreams about)
I don’t know about the rest of you happy Polyamarous couples but their seems to be no...
Yes! And thank you! You are correct that was a frustrating time for myself well as I do believe a lot of other couples when their was a lot of turmoil going on in the world and I probably took it more personal than I should of but I won’t hide my faults and not pretend this is a perfect world...
It’s probably been mentioned but to be honest I’m too lazy and ADHD to read through every reply but the Unicorn hunting is common to a lot of men that have a OPP (one penis policy)
Now does that make me a hypocrite that I am in a Open Triad FMF relationship? Both partners openly date other men...
Thank you! I’m glad someone else sees that concern and valid too. Cheeky yes but their already so many narrow minded folks towards Polyamarous men and women . Mixed opinions from our partners as well
Seems this society is more and more obsessed with unnatural beauty that it’s the only thing that matters anymore. I see dating profiles from women and men along the lines of “must have a chiseled chest , had to be 6ft tall, must have blue eyes and so forth”
Some mens profiles .”must be skinny...