Recent content by Nmi

Yes, the brat-tamer aspect :) That is also something that could be fun and as said, has nothing to do with age. It's more about the mindset, like in all d/s-relationships.

It depends and it has nothing to do with age in the end. Basically, it's about the other one being dominant and taking the role of the "old and wise" and the little is the one learning. I identify myself as a daddy-dom, as I really like the role of being looked upon to and the "old and wise...

The comment section though... :mad:

In memory of Scott Weiland Stone Temple Pilots - Sour Girl Brings back so much memories from my teenage years, man I was big into grunge back then :)

Something I wrote to a random OKC match: "Being poly has taught me that you really can love many people very much and you realize it at the first time of break-up. You nearly cry when you hear a cheesy pop-ballad suddenly from the radio and think about the love you lost when you look at the...

Nat King Cole - Smile Turning to classics this evening :)

"Sorry, I didn't know you weren't single." And just what part of "Open relationship" did you not understand... :rolleyes:

I can luckily be alone as much as I want :) Now that some time has passed, this is definitely for the better and I can move along. We have talked with the girl a couple of times and we can be buddies, just talk about things if we want to, but in the end, this really was a good decision. Maybe...

I'm a terrible pretender :D But I mainly just try to put things away and try to act normal. It's actually easier when there are people around. When I am alone at work or wherever, then my concentration fails.

Now it's been a week and I've discovered some things that are the absolute downsides to being a poly. I can't go all over and say that things are the way they went. Everything still needs to be discreet. I can't go to Facebook and tell things around and I can't be devastated with my friends...

A sad update to all of this. Since summer, things started to heat up between me and the woman. The romantic feelings started to grow, leading to the point where we finally said that we love each other very much, so I started treating her like my girlfriend/metamour. The boyfriend had been...

As long as it does not grow to be a problem, I really don't understand the demonizing of porn. There are a few good points though, about porn giving the wrong impression of sex and male/female body for the inexperienced and about it being addicting. And yes, it's mostly also boring :D Then...

This is exactly how I feel about this. It's not that I don't like sex, quite the opposite! But sex itself is not how I see polyamory. The intimacy is the keyword here - things can feel intimate and even sexual without actual sexual actions and from my point of view can give one more that just...

I guess I've always known I have poly tendencies, although 20 years ago I couldn't name it correctly. But by the time people started their first "serious" relationships as teenagers, I always felt like I don't fit it. I've been a bit anarchistic towards usual mono relationships ever since. Over...

Thanks people, different points of view is exactly what I needed here, sincerely. But alas, there has been a some kind of truce to all of this. All four of us sat down and discussed how this should go on and this is what we decided: 1) The girls can have their affair and see where it goes...