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    Openness and other personality traits (link to personality test in thread)

    I've had 90% openness and all others less than 50. So you could be right.
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    My real intro

    I hope so.
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    My real intro

    I still want to have children in the future - if I meet a woman (women?) who wants to get pregnant with me and give birth. If not - I can accept it. But I still keep hope.
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    My real intro

    Because I'm not sure sacrificing my life for the sake of our child would make us happy as a family.
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    My real intro

    It was 3.5 years ago when I came to Israel first time to obtain citizenship, and she moved to Canada. It was only a few days before she did her second test - and it appeared the first one was false. But that were incredibly tough days for me. I didn't want to move to Canada - but even more, I...
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    My real intro

    No need to feel bad. Yes, we needed to move to three different countries - but it was our voluntary decision. One of my gfs moved to apply for her scholarship at California Univ. Second moved to her parents and grandparents, with whom she separated at 14. And I decided to move to Israel because...
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    My real intro

    This song and video felt very nostalgic for me when I saw/heard them for the first time. I just moved to Israel from Lviv (the biggest city in western Ukraine), where I lived in an open triad with two bi girls. One of them moved to LA, CA, a bit earlier. And one - to Montreal, Quebec, the same...
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    My real intro

    Qyrymly is a native word for the Crimean-Tatarian (nation, culture, language) in their own language. Qyrymly is the only native nation of Crimea. They hope to return to their motherland when it's free from Russian occupants. They and we (ethnical Ukrainians) hope for Crimea to become a...
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    My real intro

    By the way, I recently posted a few links to modern Ukrainian music. One song is in Qyrymly's (Crimean-Tatar's) language, and the rest are in Ukrainian. https://www.facebook.com/t.tarnavsky/posts/pfbid02nXjLCB2DARiXLNjoreqhj2mLZzwfe7mrkHWxq3VnL8kjXqcHFFRVytHueRSto9pJl
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    My real intro

    "Rock" BTW, I totally disrespect Elvis as "king of rock'n'roll". He became one only for being white. And the real king of rock'n'roll was Chuck Berry!
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    My real intro

    I've been reading and writing here for months, but I never made an introductory post - so now I'll fix it. Age: 46 Gender: I was sure I was cisgender male for most of my life. But now I suppose to be genderfluid. Sexuality: I was sure I was heterosexual. But now I think I'm bisexual - I felt...
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    Polyamorous jealousy

    Yes. It was the moment when we invented "the last rule" or "the rule number infinity": "You can break any of the previous rules only if you do something instead to make your partners happy or at least ok with it.
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    My partners making love with others - my feelings.

    Hi all! One of the most inspiring - and shocking - things in polyamory for me. When I watched my partners having sex with their other partners (both men and women) - surprisingly to me (the first time) - I felt HAPPY. After dozens more times, I've felt: I wasn't happy FOR them - I was happy...
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    Why and how did you get into poly?

    No-no, they didn't ask me to choose. I've said, "IF they've asked me to choose - I couldn't." They instead proposed I become their common boyfriend - to be a threesome. It felt unusual and uncommon and a bit weird - but I liked it. So I agreed. And our 20 months of life together showed it was...
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    Polyamorous jealousy

    It felt like "she makes what better for herself - but she also takes care of me!" And it felt perfect. I felt I was cared (I spent the day with my two secondaries) - but my primary GF took what she wanted too.
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