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    Have you ever started a poly group in your city?

    So, what would your definition of “on topic” be? What would you want to see discussed? Just trying to get ideas.
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    Have you ever started a poly group in your city?

    Thus far I have learned: MeetUp wants $14.99 to start a group. Facebook groups only allow creators to hide from non-members in “secret” groups. “Secret” groups can’t be searched for. They’re invite only. And the admin is still visible to the members. So leaving towards a Facebook “page” where...
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    Extra Practical - Birth Control

    Oh! Totally missed that this wasn't in the US. Sorry!
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    Extra Practical - Birth Control

    HIPPA protects you in this case. I mean, they can think what they want about your situation, but they're not allowed to share that info except for purposes of treating you. If they do, you have the ability to file a really lucrative law suit.
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    Have you ever started a poly group in your city?

    So, I read "The Game Changer". Awesome book. One thing that stuck out was his involvement with PolyTampa, a group down in southwest FL. In the book it was just a small meet-up. Now, looking at the website, it looks more like a full-blown organization...which is awesome!:) There is no group...
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    Beer

    My favorite type of beer is "free". :-D
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    Hey, I know you haven't been online on this site in forever, but in case you do - I was just...

    Hey, I know you haven't been online on this site in forever, but in case you do - I was just going to say hi! :-)
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    Love Will Be the Death of Us

    I read this article yesterday. It was posted on Facebook. I thought it was beautiful for some reason. Anyways, I thought I would share: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/ian-mackenzie/love-will-be-the-death-of-us_b_10658650.html
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    Where from here? Let's talk.

    Yes! Spot on with many of the "why I continue to go forward with this" reasons. Yeah. I haven't worked the whole "cheating" vs. "unethical" thing out in my head completely. In the situation it came to that, it would be easy to say "This is what I'm about to do whether you like it or not." But...
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    Where from here? Let's talk.

    I guess it would depend the nature of the model she proposed. I imagine all of a sudden being disposed-of wouldn't be very pleasant, but I'd be okay eventually. I don't see this scenario as very probable. I think what you were going for was some sort of reverse analogy here. Remember I don't...
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    Where from here? Let's talk.

    Honestly, I don't have the energy to argue with you and my wife. Sorry. Good story though.
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    Where from here? Let's talk.

    Yeah. I guess.
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    Where from here? Let's talk.

    Very good question. She has said in the past, she doesn't want to take this lifestyle completely away because she does understand it's a part of me. And has expressed at least some guilt from here apprehensions on it. Thanks for asking that. It seems that may be a bit of an exaggeration...
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    Where from here? Let's talk.

    Tried to have a talk last night. Didn't work. She unloaded a bunch of judgements on me right out of the gate, and I reacted... Even thought I had sat there all day prepping myself to not react and even knowing what she was going to say. So... Today, I requested we try an email thread just...
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