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  1. IsidoreNabi

    Is polyamorism in men correlated with sex drive?

    Doh! Fortunately I enjoy irony.
  2. IsidoreNabi

    Is polyamorism in men correlated with sex drive?

    And only 107 miles away! Be still, my heart! If you ever come to Philly, let's get together so we can find out we can't stand each other. ;)
  3. IsidoreNabi

    Is polyamorism in men correlated with sex drive?

    Sure, but how would anyone know about these things if they don't even talk to me? Before someone says, "no wonder nobody talks to him--he's soooo negative!" I just want to point out that I started out very hopeful--almost, dare I say, optimistic? But I'm just feeling beaten down at this point.
  4. IsidoreNabi

    interesting article on breakups

    And women are good at maintaining multiple relationships, which promote community cohesiveness.
  5. IsidoreNabi

    Is polyamorism in men correlated with sex drive?

    I'll take all you've got. :cool:
  6. IsidoreNabi

    Is polyamorism in men correlated with sex drive?

    I'm not sure what you mean by perform. Do you do impressions of famous women having orgasms?
  7. IsidoreNabi

    Is polyamorism in men correlated with sex drive?

    I don't suppose you'd care to point some of them out to me. :D But, seriously, where are all these poly women looking for extramarital sex? I had a couple of short-term flings before I found out about poly, but they ended because their fantasies went from, "I wish I could do this with my...
  8. IsidoreNabi

    Asexual Poly?

    It's difficult to find a male friend who isn't interested in sex, but sometimes pestering is in the mind of the beholder. In my friendships with women, I've always found a level of sexual banter we were both comfortable with, and most of them realized that, having been their friend for a long...
  9. IsidoreNabi

    I'm confused...

    I hate to be a wet blanket, but... Lately I've taken to describing myself as "poly in-name-only," because, while I've identified myself as poly for the past three years, been active in several local poly groups and attended some poly conferences, I have yet to meet anyone through these...
  10. IsidoreNabi

    Wisdom of Conference Flings?

    So, because you're stuck in a hotel, away from home, attending meetings and workshops that run all day, you're supposed to just go back to your room and think about work until you fall asleep? Are you this critical of people who watch TV in their rooms?
  11. IsidoreNabi

    interesting article on breakups

    Read Sex at Dawn.
  12. IsidoreNabi

    Wisdom of Conference Flings?

    I always assumed conferences were made for hooking up. I mean, why else do they have them in hotels? I never had a problem with gossip. If anyone ever asked me I would deny everything. It's about the only thing I consistently lie about, and as long as slut-shaming is a thing, I will never feel...
  13. IsidoreNabi

    Sexy movies that help set the mood

    Even The Blacklist? :eek:
  14. IsidoreNabi

    Sexy movies that help set the mood

    DIY Porn There's nothing hotter than recording yourselves, then watching it together.
  15. IsidoreNabi

    Sex history calculator

    I think I'm about your age. (I'm 59.) I had to estimate too, but I estimated conservatively and still got this: "You've done the deed with more people than basically all of your peers." I don't think that's true. I mean I know some guys are way ahead of me. I know this because they were in my...
  16. IsidoreNabi

    Not exactly new.

    I've been hanging around for a while but never wrote an introduction, so, hi. My wife and I live in King of Prussia, PA, and I work in Philadelphia. We have been married for 21 years, open for five. I'm poly, she's not, but I have a feeling that might be changing soon. The way she has...
  17. IsidoreNabi

    I just can't seem to accept it.

    It sounds like she's blown it in the communication department too. Open marriage is not about letting strangers wander in and out of your lives, it's about open and honest communication among all concerned. In fact, I don't think you can have any kind of marriage if you can't talk honestly with...
  18. IsidoreNabi

    Why is spirituality and polyamory linked?

    It doesn't work for me, in case you're keeping count.
  19. IsidoreNabi

    Funny you should mention it. The town was actually named Reeseville but when travelers came...

    Funny you should mention it. The town was actually named Reeseville but when travelers came through, the only visible sign was that of the King of Prussia Inn, which was apparently named for Frederick the Great, but no one remembers exactly why.
  20. IsidoreNabi

    Why is spirituality and polyamory linked?

    If you just like to argue for the sake of argument, and especially if you enjoy slipping in a gratuitous insult here and there while you're at it, you do. I've had enough of this debate, and far more than enough of you.
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