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So, what would your definition of “on topic” be? What would you want to see discussed? Just trying to get ideas.

:D I sent you a PM!

Thus far I have learned: MeetUp wants $14.99 to start a group. Facebook groups only allow creators to hide from non-members in “secret” groups. “Secret” groups can’t be searched for. They’re invite only. And the admin is still visible to the members. So leaving towards a Facebook “page” where...

Oh! Totally missed that this wasn't in the US. Sorry!

HIPPA protects you in this case. I mean, they can think what they want about your situation, but they're not allowed to share that info except for purposes of treating you. If they do, you have the ability to file a really lucrative law suit.

So, I read "The Game Changer". Awesome book. One thing that stuck out was his involvement with PolyTampa, a group down in southwest FL. In the book it was just a small meet-up. Now, looking at the website, it looks more like a full-blown organization...which is awesome!:) There is no group...

My favorite type of beer is "free". :-D

Hey, I know you haven't been online on this site in forever, but in case you do - I was just going to say hi! :-)

I read this article yesterday. It was posted on Facebook. I thought it was beautiful for some reason. Anyways, I thought I would share: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/ian-mackenzie/love-will-be-the-death-of-us_b_10658650.html

Yes! Spot on with many of the "why I continue to go forward with this" reasons. Yeah. I haven't worked the whole "cheating" vs. "unethical" thing out in my head completely. In the situation it came to that, it would be easy to say "This is what I'm about to do whether you like it or not." But...

I guess it would depend the nature of the model she proposed. I imagine all of a sudden being disposed-of wouldn't be very pleasant, but I'd be okay eventually. I don't see this scenario as very probable. I think what you were going for was some sort of reverse analogy here. Remember I don't...

Honestly, I don't have the energy to argue with you and my wife. Sorry. Good story though.

Yeah. I guess.

Very good question. She has said in the past, she doesn't want to take this lifestyle completely away because she does understand it's a part of me. And has expressed at least some guilt from here apprehensions on it. Thanks for asking that. It seems that may be a bit of an exaggeration...

Tried to have a talk last night. Didn't work. She unloaded a bunch of judgements on me right out of the gate, and I reacted... Even thought I had sat there all day prepping myself to not react and even knowing what she was going to say. So... Today, I requested we try an email thread just...

Oh, it sucks for me. For her? Well she doesn't act like she does when I'm wanting to open up dialogue on the concept, so yeah, I'd say she's in bliss.

I have thought about all that you have said. I've also given up on it for long periods of time, and found myself feeling incomplete, depressed, unfulfilled, in general. "Benefit" in your scenario was defined by your ultimatum. I don't know if that's how you feel about it or not, but...

I'd like the list to be abolished. But yeah, shortened would be nice. Because of the uncanny ability for our marriage to cruise into bliss when I just shut up about me.

I think about that ALL the time. It would be one thing if sex with another person meant to her I was unfaithful, etc. - but we ALREADY DO THAT. It's like, I feel like a little kid who's allowed to watch R rated movies, but only the one's my mommy will let me watch. It becomes more...

Problem is, I don't necessarily want her to become anything. Maybe her version of all this fits her. I want to continue to meet her needs, I just want solutions for how that can happen while mine get met. She has a long list of things I shouldn't do. I Want compersion. Joy from each other...