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Tread Lightly! It didn't take long, once Giggles stepped out of the picture, for our friends to come forward with their dislike of her. I guess she had a way of making people around us uncomfortable, not so much with us having a girlfriend, but with the way she would constantly pull us away...

The Long Road Back I've been back to my old tricks of start…stop…rewrite…and trash..rinse…repeat. I have a bad bad tendency to get off subject and lead my story away to place I don't know if I'm ready to even explore full with myself let alone purge it on the internet. I've decided however it...

Thank you to everyone who chimed in on this. I really appreciate it. Things have gotten ugly with Giggles, and it makes me sad because I was hopeful that the friendships could be salvaged and hopefully not completely fade. I'm not good at letting people I care about go. I'm still friends with...

I'm mainly keeping her in my signature as a reference for my blog. I will eventually remove her completely. I have no other reason. As for the package deal, that was just how it went. It caught all three of us by surprise and we went with it. We all made mistakes, and I hope we all learned from...

Natja, Giggles was the one who said she was not bi, that I was the exception. I meant no offense to her or anyone else by changing my signature. She stated in the breakup that women are not her thing. I was her thing, and Nails and I as a couple were her thing. We just couldn't give her what she...

AnnabelMore, don't apologize ever for how you feel. Whether I agree or not with what people say, I completely respect their right to say it! It gives me a chance to look at things from other angles then my own. FYI, I love reading your blog and your replies. Your words always sorta gave me the...

AnnabelMore, The "both or nothing" reaction was more out of shock she actually said "him" than anything. I had come to both of them several times since I'd been feeling left out, about them branching off without me, and her and me trying to focus on just our friendship only. Both of them said...

You're all right, and I know it. It's been a long long time since I've broken up with anyone, and this time I have three people to consider, not just two. So I think this need to give her a chance to fix it might be more for Nails than for myself. The truth is, I know I would never put up with...

Here is my issue. I'm just going to throw it out there and hope you guys can muddle through the mess of my mind and help. I started a blog here a few months back, when things were rosy and bright. I had decided to let go of issues that were mine and just let the relationship with our girlfriend...

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Truth The moment you realize your unicorn isn't all she makes you think really sucks. When we are at our end of town if I even slightly treat her as a friend and not a girlfriend she freaks on me but....take me to her neck of the woods and if I touch her at all like a girlfriend she pulls away...

Truth The moment you realize your unicorn isn't all she makes you think really sucks. When we are at our end of town if I even slightly treat her as a friend and not a girlfriend she freaks on me but....take me to her neck of the woods and if I touch her at all like a girlfriend she pulls away...

grrrrrrr arrrrrrrrghhh So…I don't even know how to go about this. I don't know if I just need to vent or if I'm looking for advice or what at this point. My triad is fine. I'm not really having issues with it as much as I'm having issues with the husband and I just don't know what to do about...

Now What? So there we were smack dab in the middle of…in the middle of…ummm. I couldn’t tell you. Giggles began messaging me on Monday and we started talking. I don’t remember a lot of what was said just mainly both of us going “I never this” or “I never that”. I’m a little foggy on most of...

The Disclaimer Before I go much further I feel the need to defend Nails in the next few things that I write. I know I keep doing that but I can’t help it. I start to write and I know I make him seem like a terrible selfish ass and while yes at times he can be that he isn’t that way all the time...

Uh Oh Reality III So there I was in what I felt like was a serious dilemma and I did what I always do, I sacrificed what I was feeling for Nails and continued forward to my home with the woman I was then certain would ruin my marriage. Now let me add a little in here cause I feel like I’m...

StudentofLife In the beginning no. I've come along way since then. Not going to lie I'm one of those women who thinks their husband is the man every woman would bend over backwards to have. I don't view myself like that at all, but that's one of my own personal battles. I have low self esteem...

StudentofLife Ahhh yes that would have been fun...bop bop bop LOL Well in all fairness I had plenty of liquid courage. I think in a normal state of mind I would have been to busy thinking about it to actually kiss her back so I guess for once Tequila worked in my favor ;) The blog is really...

UH OH Reality II Now before I go into this part let me hit a little more on the dynamic that is Nails and Sorta. We are VERY affectionate people with one another. We hold hands or have our arms around each other. We make out in public. For the most part we can not keep our hands off of each...

UH OH Reality… Nails left early the next morning, well early considering our sunrise walk of shame only a few hours before. He woke me with our normal routine of kisses and snuggles. We didn't really talk to heated about the night before, just mainly laughing, a few “did that really happen” and...