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She must be thick or just doesn't care about risk to herself or you. She shouldn't even be mad. Probably offended because she connects no condoms with you, to trust. Using condoms = "you don't trust me anymore". You can stop being mad though, just keep giving her the reason (STI risks) for...

Is it too late to cancel the trip and get money back? I wouldn't go with someone essentially throwing a passive-aggressive tantrum. Screw that "noise". It's so easy to put on a show during a trip/vacation, especially since you've already been handed the bait and switch on a silver platter.

Why does this look like yet another instance of a husband/bf suddenly being poly after the woman has a child, is pregnant, or soon after the kids show up? I can imagine if True Dad Confessions wasn't already shut down (unlike TrueMomConfessions where women still get to dish their dirt. i.e...

Lifetime is self explanatory but TLC has gone to complete shit. Everyone else has already shut you down, hope you enjoyed your fishing trip :rolleyes:.

I smell an "oops" coming. But I'm biased since I've seen it happen more than a few times. And given the current circumstances, with you paying some of her way and previously all the way, it's not hard for me to think that she probably thought about committing an "oops". Add the whole mindset of...

You can search for therapists that can hold sessions online (mostly through skype.). Polyamory is in the drop down list for searching. _____ As I've said it enough times, lawyer.

That just made this so much worse imo. He also comes off worse as well. I've lived in Germany for a few years. She's most likely not going to clarify a damn thing with them, if I'm guessing her parent's generation correctly. Because it will make the both of them look bad in their eyes...

How old are the kids? _____ German? Yeah, she was definitely doing whatever with you as a "price of admission". She's visiting her parents with him. Guaranteed your name won't even be coming out of his mouth. You won't exist, although your kids might. Re: Lawyer and see about your finances...

I'm not suggesting playing a blame game, it's pretty clear he's acting like an asshole towards her. Did you miss the part where he is basically withholding love and affection until OP "gets her shit together" ("normal")? Which comes off as: "If only she (OP) can hurry up and get over the fact...

- He's turning it around blaming you, still. - With this new info my guess is she's doing whatever she's doing with you, as a "price of admission" to stay with your husband. Since you're not living in your own home at the moment who knows what else is going on. I'd at least check to see if your...

Okay first, that is the biggest dick move for him to be doing. So disrespectful. Doesn't matter that he's admitting he's doing wrong and "apologizing", he's minimized it by turning it all around on you. - Relationship structure doesn't always fall into what one would like. But this doesn't...

Sounds like it's time to have a conversation. Tell him you think there needs to be more structure to the situation, and go from there.

Gosh damn I felt like I was in high school reading of this behavior. I personally won't put up with that mess. I used to but then I realized it wasn't worth it just to keep "friends". Nothing to do with poly, those two were acting like shrews. Run.

Well, constantly referring to her as a unicorn isn't exactly helping. And some people are probably going to jump your throat because of it. May I suggest metamour/potential metamour. Or the classic Other Woman (OW), even though this one just makes it sound as bad as using unicorn with the...

I prefaced it saying it's passive aggressive, I didn't mean for them to actually do it. Would it have been better to put "/s" after it to clarify? You could have gone another route instead of just saying all of it was stupid. Everything after my stated passive aggressive sentence was my...

This is totally passive-aggressive, but I'd make up some other woman you're interested in, as a litmus test. Just to see if it was on purpose./s She could have told you well before being married, which is starting to look like a convenience for her (too many reasons to list tbh). I get the...

Also in general I wouldn't even try to appease the 'very Christian' family in general. I believe the saying "you can't always get what you want", applies. They are already mad about other things regarding your relationship with their daughter. They were going to find some more doctrine you're...

No clue why she would want citizenship here. If she maintains it and the situation changes, she is now a part of the double tax club like the rest of us. The fee for dropping citizenship just more than quadrupled, plus they demand a "little" chunk of your pay 5 years to the day before you drop...

Can she not get the green card by herself by some other merit? Not going to touch much on the very Christian family needing a dog & pony show, other than you aren't going to win. Edit | Intro thread doesn't state how long you've been with whom. You refer to the gf needing a visa as "quite...

@jayblue122 I omitted my "ever heard of roommates?" remark because I already raked over everything else. I knew I was going to get shit for criticizing it. I know this. I put a zero on purpose even though I live with a relative. Because I figured it was asking if I lived with my SO. It wasn't...