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1:25 p.m., Wednesday the 8th We had Polish sausage last night, with carrots and sauerkraut. Tonight I think we're having pasta and leftover fish. We do also have an appointment to get our taxes done. I was hoping we would eat out after that, but apparently that's not meant to be. I am feeling...

2:44 p.m., Tuesday the 7th SB made us fish last night, tilapia, plus seasoned oven-baked sweet potato slices, plus corn. The fish had breading, which it turned out SB didn't like. Too dry. She said she was glad it wasn't her favorite kind of fish, and that Stan wasn't over. After dinner, SB and...

Hi hetcurious, Just know that if your partner says no to poly, that doesn't mean you did something wrong, or approached it in the wrong way. Poly just isn't right for everyone, that's all. It's possible you will find out that you are poly and your partner is mono, and the two of you are...

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2:30 p.m., Monday the 6th SB and the dogs got home safe and sound, they arrived here yesterday at perhaps 6:10 p.m. After they got home, BH went to pick up takeout for us from Church's Chicken. It being a work night, and SB having a lot to do to wind down from the trip, unpacking and giving...

Hello Xatu, It sounds like you are stuck between a rock and a hard place. You need E and L, but E will not be with you unless you break up with L. Perhaps the thing to do is to sit down with them, and explain that you need both of them in your life. Open up a dialog, as it were. What about the...

Greetings Logic, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. I have a brother who works as an engineer up on the North Slope, and a sister who lived in Anchorage for a while, but I have to admit I have never been in Alaska. It does seem like a pretty awesome place. Anyway I...

2:05 p.m., Sunday the 5th Last night BH made us a freezer-to-stovetop dinner, it had chicken, veggies, pasta, and a cream sauce. After dinner we watched a movie, "Blink Twice." It was a real mind-bender, with a surprise ending. After the movie, BH watched a hockey game; I turned in. I expect...

Greetings Mephistopheles, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to continue to lurk, browse, etc. Who knows, there may be a local poly group in your area, that meets for munches, presentations, or what have you. Google "ENM" and/or "polyamory" with the name of your state and/or nearest major...

12:51 p.m., Saturday the 4th We had TV dinners last night. After dinner, we watched two Justified episodes. It's quite a good series so far, I would recommend it to just about anyone. It does have some violence, it is "intended for mature audiences." But I don't think it's overdone.

2:47 p.m., Friday the 3rd BH and I had microwave burritos for dinner last night. Later, we watched one Justified episode, afterwhich BH watched a hockey game, and I turned in. Not sure what all's the plan for tonight, but it does sound like we'll watch multiple Justified episodes.

3:42 p.m., Thursday the 2nd For dinner last night we had salad, plus some kind of Mexicany thing, like a big soft taco with refried beans, cheese, and some of the leftover pulled pork. At this time, SB and the dogs are on their way to Las Cruces, for a Barn Hunt trial, they will be gone until...

Hello yoyot, Everyone makes mistakes, you recognize your mistake, and will no doubt do better in the future. As for not telling your partner right away, from your description that sounds like a gray area. Maybe in the future you'll tell her right away, you'll have to figure that one out. It...

Greetings ocean_eyes, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. I lived in Michigan for about 20 years -- metro Detroit -- and I definitely love cats. It sounds like you want to chat about a variety of topics, including poly. I reckon that the Fireplace is a good board for...

Polysaturated = having more partners than one can keep up with, or having the most partners that one can keep up with (and do justice to).

2:50 p.m., Wednesday the 1st We ate after they got back, I had the last of the lentil soup, plus the rest of SB's Thai dish that she had ordered (as it gave her stomach problems). BH and SB had leftover pulled pork, plus pasta with sauce. Today, Eddie is at the groomers, SB will pick him up...

Hi Rosalindsbaby, It seems to me that Max sets you up to fail, e.g., "I shouldn't have to talk about my expectations ahead of time, because my expectations are just common sense," and then when you do "fail," he is quick to guilt-trip you for it, and you are quick to agree with him and blame...

4:43 p.m., Tuesday the 31st For dinner yesterday, Snowbunny heated up the leftover pulled pork from out of the freezer, we had that on some leftover buns. Also she baked some sweet potato fries for us. We are doing leftovers tonight, as one of the dogs, Ginger I think, has a Rally class...

Greetings TheGangTrysPoly, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. Polyamory.com is mostly about having discussions about poly, and about getting/receiving poly advice. You should definitely be able to make new friends here, and learn more about poly, I encourage you to...

Hello Rosalindsbaby, It seems to me that you and Max have differing ideas about what constitutes a significant risk of transmitting a cold virus, and Max is upset at you because you didn't share his viewpoint about that. I suppose more communication could have at least revealed, before your...