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Hello all, Some of you have been following my situation with my partner Pisces and his other partner Blue. Last night he sent me a message saying: "I'm pretty sure Blue and I just broke up. Please don't contact me for a few days." Of course, I am so saddened for him. I don't know the details...

Hello all! Happy New year! I hope you are all well. It’s been a while since I’ve posted. There are quite a few things going on with my partner (our relationship) and my meta (their relationship), and her “dealings” with me, for those who have read my previous threads (and all the drama...

Hello all! As I am still learning about all the nuances in poly, like agreements, rules, boundaries, couples' privilege, etc, I am hoping to get your thoughts on something: Is an agreement (say, on communication/phone calls) made between a couple (not married, not living together, but having a...

Hello gang! I'm curious about what most of you do or see around communication (texting, video and/or phone calls) when your partner is with their other partner(s). Do you keep it minimal? Do you communicate at all? Can it vary? Have you asked for minimal to no communication from outside...

Hello all! I hope you have been doing well. I've posted a couple of times before. My most recent post was seeking thoughts about my partner (Pisces) travelling to Europe with his other partner (Blue), and how I'd handle all of that for the first time. I have been with Pisces for ten months...

Hello all! The backstory: I have been with my partner, Pisces, for nine months. He has been with his other partner (we will call her Blue), who is married and lives elsewhere with her husband and teen daughter. My guy, Pisces, was married for a long time to another woman (we will call her...

Hello lovely peeps! In my other thread (Poly Mind, Mono Heart), I mentioned that I currently have a partner (long-distance), Pisces, in an EMN situation, and that since March, I have been looking to form a second relationship here in my own city. That hasn't been successful so far, so about a...

Hello all! Long time lurker, first time poster. I have been in various ENM situations (including an opened marriage with five of us in a polycule) off and on since 2015. What the title of my thread is referring to is the idea of me wondering - If I feel I can be truly poly (in love with more...