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Thanks for the advice! I found it helpful :)

Recently my boyfriend has gone through a breakup. Two months ago his girlfriend of four years broke up with him. They were had always been LDR. They saw each other for a while and then said goodbye. Two days after the last time they saw each other she broke up with him via Skype. He is still...

I agree with the above. Neither has to be primary. If you choose that sort of hiergherchical structure for your relationships then that's a discussion to have with your partners. It also depends on what the word Primary means to you and to your partners.

You make a good point. I probably should talk to Sarah about it. At least to some degree. I do see potential for things with Sarah to work out long term too. But there are alot of other factors to consider with both of them outside of the relationship. Namely I'm a college student. Right now I...

First off I want to thank everyone for their responses. I found them very helpful and it gave me a lot to think about. So I spoke with Jason yesterday about this. We spoke a lot about what "primary" meant to us and working to get on the same page. In summary, for me there is a lot of...

My boyfriend and his Partner recently made the decision to no longer use the term "Primary" with one another. She brought this up with him and said that he and I were acting as Primarys and that it had turned more into a co-primary situation. She was not sure this was what she wanted and she...

Hi KC43. Thanks for taking the time to respond to my post. It's not his relationship with Beni that is causing these feelings for me. It's how the change in their relationship has affected him. And by extension how he is acting differently with me. Also we hang out the three of us over Skype...

I have not dealt too much with feeling jealousy but recently I think that may be what I am experiencing. In the past when I have felt insecure it has manifested in more sadness or self worth issues than issues with a metamour or potential metamour. I first tried to write this post leaving out...

We have been apart about 7 months. It would be hard for them not to meet logisticaly I think... But this is true. I could ask her if she prefer not to meet him.

Hello, I have posted on here before. Right now my primary, Liz and I are long distance, but will be reunited in about 2 weeks. I am currently seeing someone, Jason, whom will be leaving for 8 months in 3 weeks. I have been seeing Jason for about a month and a bit. I have been with Liz for 3.5...

We have been together for 3 years, and poly for the past year. We lived together 2.5 years of 3 we have been together. As for the communication: I wanted to talk about things but she didn't want to hear about things. I didn't feel comfortable not sharing things... I made a thread on here a few...

This is also my concern.

I have added more info to my original post She has identifyed belonging and security and intimacy. However this agreement was the only thing she thought would help meet those needs. This is basically my concern. This is also why I worry it may not be so temporary. How can I encourage/help...

Hello, My primary, Liz, has asked me to take a break from being physical with other people for a while so she can adjust to the current situation that is our relationship. Even though we have been poly for a while now, she has recently had trouble accepting the fact that I am involved with...

You could ask to be listed as play partners, or as dom/sub.

I posted the link to the results in the other thread if you wanted to check it out :)

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1r53boI13Ygs_1kesS_KUTtB5iV7IU-CIAleALlOoj44/viewanalytics Quick link to the poll results!

I read what you wrote earlier. I was waiting to see what other people said because I am struggling with a similar issue. You are not alone.

@Cookie, I think some people just chose not to answer, thats why there is less responses.

My bad, Fixed it!