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I'm just popping in to share some news, since I've been off a while... Zen and I are planning our wedding, in July, at the Thunder in the Mountains kink convention. And for those of you familiar with such things... Midori has just agreed to officiate for us! *Incoherent happy noises!*

Hey, I know that it is frowned upon (though I actually don't see anything against it in the User Guidelines...?) to use the forum to try and promote anything. I am going to go out on a limb here, I am hoping/guessing that since I'm not trying to promote my own business endeavor of any sort, I'm...

So I'm specifically NOT talking about people, or lovers, or anything like that. I mean random stuff. Ever been really into something, like it really brightened your life, and then it went away or they stopped making it or selling it? I'm having one of those moments, remembering a website...

So I'd like to start a thread here where people can talk about things they've experienced or read or heard about that were legit BAD and share any tips to stay safe... This could be "I got conned by an identity thief in online dating, and if I knew then what I know now, I'd have avoided these...

I wanna talk about it!! I know lots of people think it's a bunch of baloney. I don't blame you, because it seems like superstitious nonsense to me if I think about it in a certain light. I've had to ponder WHY I like astrology. Because I do. I think it's because I like organizing ideas and...

Hello! A friend of mine in the local poly/lifestyle/BDSM scene is a gifted writer and photographer, and he's doing a themed blog project on the subject of loneliness. You would think that, as polyamorists, lovers of more, we would not experience loneliness as much as others, but I don't think...

So I think in analogies, especially early in the morning, and especially in the shower. I can't explain it, so don't ask, that's just how it is. This morning, my thoughts were on an incident where a cute gal at a bar get together was all over my Sadist. I reacted with a sort of raised eyebrow...

This. This, this, this, THIS. http://blog.carsieblanton.com/post/82149148832/casual-love ^^^ I want to do like a standing ovation for this blog post, but I'm at work and my coworkers would look at me very strangely if I did. My whole life, I have felt this way. Why in the heck does someone...

https://www.lelo.com/blog/is-polyamory-right-for-you-8-questions-to-help-you-decide/ To sum up the main points (you can read the article if you want further explanations) and my own personal answers to 'em.... 1. Do you want an open relationship? 2. Is your relationship stable and happy? I...

I have some things I like to find out about people as I am getting to know them. So in this thread, feel free to either: - Suggest things you say or ask as you're getting to know someone... - Share opinions on the questions that I, or another poster, might ask... - Answer any of the questions...

This article has nothing to do with polyamory specifically. I am sharing it here because part of being successfully polyamorous...in fact, part of being successful at anything PERIOD, especially relationships, is being ~self aware~. What does that even mean? It's a challenge. Well, in talks...

I like weird quotes. I kind of collect them in my head. Many from kids, as opposed to those serious adult motivational or inspirational quotes we always hear... Anyhow I'd like to hear some of your favorites, even if they are just silly things that someone said and you remembered...

Jealousy is a topic I have a difficult time discussing with many people I know, especially those who are trying to wrap their minds around poly, seeing from a place of complete mono thinking and behavior. One of these recent conversations has me thinking... In my poly group, the main quad...

Life as it stands right now-- Cast of characters: Me, Spork, 37 year old bi, poly, masochistic, extroverted snarky miniature lady person. Ex: Old Wolf, 48 year old straight, mono, grouchy pessemistic veteran. Son1: Ninja, nearly 17, will likely stay with Dad. Son2: Q, 14, will likely stay with...

Hi! High? No. Even though I live in Colorado! Or rather only in the sense of being like 6,000 feet up, maybe... I'm here because I was on another forum, about relationships, and found myself talking about my own experiences, and it got to the point where...because my situation is odd and my...