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    Fibromyalgia

    I wondered how many other folk here suffer from fibromyalgia? I know from previous surveys here things like anxiety and IBS are more common in the poly community than the general population. They are both linked to fibromyalgia. For me it's become an utter pain, literally. I'm gutted that due...
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    Not jealousy but the opposite.

    If people have followed us they will know that Angel and Wolf have been in a stable romantic relationship for nearly a year and that’s developed from short time together to time away in distant cites (now several times) and nights and days away. They are together every week for two days plus...
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    Next big step -Paris!

    On Sunday Wolf asked Angel if she would come to Paris with in 4 weeks time for a few days as his official girlfriend while he is on business. To be clear I knew this was coming because he had asked me first if I was Ok with him asking her even though they know they don't have to ask my...
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    Sometimes its sooooo hard

    Really good evening, Dinner then a local concert followed by a wine or two in front of the fire. All brilliant. Then about midnight, I excused myself and went up to bed leaving Angel and Wolf alone to canoodle and eventually go to bed together.They are downstairs in the guest room, I am...
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    Coming Out..so far

    After embracing polyamory we have decided, given our current relationship, to come out to several people, mainly to avoid lying and to avoid other people being hurt if/when they found out. We don't feel the need to tell the world, nor see any reason to discuss our domestic or sexual...
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    First Poly V Holiday

    In a couple of weeks we are going on our first 5 day holiday that is me, my wife (Angel) her OSO (Wolf) and his dog! We have/they have stayed over at each others houses and spent weekends together but that is usually just one night and occasionally two but is typically twice a week. This...
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    Then suddenly I thought...how did I end up here

    Last sunday was the sunday of Valentines weekend. And my wife was going out for romantic valentines lunch and afternoon with her lover. At 11.30 I was kneeling down in the bedroom fastening her stockings to her suspender(garter belt) because she was was struggling to do it as she was too clumsy...
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    Two times I have felt angry or jealous, I don't understand.

    As one side of a V, after many years of monogamy I feel I have coped really well with my wifes journey into polyamory. I feel I have, with the help of this site, and Franklin Veaux's book, been on top of emotions and managed things that have blindsided me. But two situations have occured that...
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    Finding the end of my partners NRE challenging.

    My wife is in her 1st poly/open relationship and you can read about our journey, here http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=73017 As things have become stable, I feel that her NRE ended this week and she is in her words "normalizing" the relationship. After such an exciting (and for...
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    Difference between partner of a polyamorous women and a cuckold

    My wife is poly and I am currently mono. (Am I poly as well? Whole different debate). I was wondering what the difference is between me being the partner of a poly women, and being a cuckold. Equally, does it matter?
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    Hello from me, and a little bit of our story.

    Hi, I'm the male part of a couple who's wife "F" has entered into a loving poly relationship. We are both in our early 50s, been sweethearts since school and married for 32 years. We are both still very fit and active. We have been monogamous for all our lives apart from one incident of...
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