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    Poly or low swlf esteem

    Hello, I feel like the person I am dating stays in contact with his exes and wants to "be friends" with women that he finds attractive because he has low self esteem and needs their validation/attention. He thinks it's because he is naturally poly (he heard my take on poly and also follows a ho...
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    Poly because of boredom

    What are folks thoughts on having jelousy (which I'm working on) and starting to have poly relationships once the primary relationship starts to get boring/less exciting?
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    Changing a mono relationship to poly

    Hello, hope you are all well! When I get in to a relationship I get jealous and possessive, I have been putting too much pressure marcus, my bf, by making him stop following sexy women on Instagram and also acting upset and jealous because he has a lot of women friends. I don't have that many...
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    I love the father of my children and my BF

    I love them both, I am not with the father (joah). I want to have a relationship with them both my bf and I have spoken about it because he sees that my kids want me and their dad to be back together, but I haven't spoken to Joah about it. I'm just loving them both and disappointing them both...
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    Jelousy about social media

    Hello, my bf was on his instagram and some lame music was playing, he said it was Iggy Azalia and I was like why do you follow her if you don't like her music and he said "for that ass." I am having trouble getting over this and have always found i have issues with this. Like if people tell me...
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    Commitment

    I'm dating 3 people, they are all just dating me because there is no other option better right now, they dont want to build, I have accepted this. I am not sure of what I want, and I care for them and they care for me so I keep seeing them, its casual sex/dating ig. They are boo, shorty and Bev...
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    Period. Sex

    He had sex with his other partner on Sunday night, saw me on Monday and I told him I was sexually frustrated. He refused to have sex with me because I'm on my period. I literally cant get over this. I'm so hurt and he still refuses to have sex if it's the really blooody part of my period. He...
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    He sees another woman but dosnt want me to see anyone else

    And I feel.guilty about it, it's not fair is it? I would prefer to just see him but he won't stop seeing her or if he is he wouldn't stop dating other women. He says he won't know how he feels until I do it, like he may not want to see me for a while or may want to take a break if I see anyone...
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    Order of sex

    Thanks everyone, he was with her for three yrs, with me for eight months, I already knew about her, they first wanted me to be the unicorn but I researched all that stuff and they realized it was not ok how they tried to make me conform to a certain relationship and not let it naturally grow...
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    First sex

    Read more then two it's really helpful, I feel like I'm more monogomous but I'm with a man who is dating another woman and has sex with whoever he wants, can anyone help mr deal with the pain I feel that he chose her to drop him off and pick him up at the airport and I'm really upset I have to...
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