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    Hello

    When I was first questioning if I were poly or not, I found a lot of sources saying that people who have cheated more than once are most likely poly, but either confused or in denial, so I think this is a great solution! I hope you are happy in your non-monogamous relationship! Sincerly...
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    This is so exciting, but scary

    Well hello! *Waves awkwardly 'cause I'm awkward* Welcome to the forums! A while ago my friend was in this situation and after a weird camping vacation they reciprocated their feelings and now their married, so.
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    Change of Plans

    My boyfriend (calling him Pasta) and I have been discussing asking one of our close friends into a triad and then one of my best friends (calling her Taco) confessed to liking me. Pasta said that I could date Taco. How could planning for a triad turn into two dyads? Anyways, officially poly!
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    Social Anxiety Taking Over

    I talked to my boyfriend about it and I was asking about a second dyad, but he recommended a triad, so now I just have to ask him.
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    poly: what & how many

    I've been talking with my boyfriend about it and he's one of our close friends. We're just having a hard time talking to him about it.
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    What you listening to Now :

    Hamilton: The Musical
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    poly: what & how many

    Why does it have to be a sexual act? I'm asexual and I hardly ever even kiss my boyfriend. I can still consider myself poly seeing as I'm working up the nerve to ask another person into our relationship. My less than 15 word definition- Loving or willing to love more than one person.
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    Judgy People

    I was at the grocery store with my only two poly friends (besides my semi poly boyfriend) and we ran into someone that one of them knew that disapproved of her polyamory and asked if the other friend and I were poly, too. We responded with yes and she literally pushed all three of us apart...
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    Social Anxiety Taking Over

    This would be really helpful, thank you! I'm an author, so writing calms me down naturally. Also, thank you for the advice on treatment. I'll look into that soon.
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    Social Anxiety Taking Over

    Yeah, I can do that, if I got over my social anxiety, which we all know isn't happening anytime soon. Unless I could somehow ask my boyfriend in an un-anxiety inducing way.
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    Mono needing advice

    I'd say that you should tell him to go mono for a month to see if things cool down and than poly for a month and see if anything's changed. My cousin did that and it worked out
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    HELP... advice needed

    Honestly, every person is different. Personally, I would be fine with someone dating both me and a sister/daughter/some-other-relative, but someone might be different. I say just ask them both about it and see what they think.
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    Poly folk in Mpls?

    I'm an hour south of Mpls
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    Additional and Disposable relationships

    I've felt like this many times, and I always try to think of my symptoms of feeling disposable and see if my partner(s) are reflecting the same ones. For instance, when I feel disposable I pinch my head weird. IDK, I'm weird.
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    Social Anxiety Taking Over

    I have terrible social anxiety, but not bad enough that I need serious help for it, or anything. I'm not Evan Hansen, or anyone like that. Anyway, I've had a boyfriend for a bit over a year who I love and adore, but I, being a polyamorous princess (his words, not mine), kind of like one of our...
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    Can a kink affair turn poly?

    Hi, first off I would like to say that I am so very sorry for your current situation! I can't imagine what that's like and you have my support, okay? Second, I think that you should sit down with your husband for at least an hour and set down some ground rules. Set some boundaries on what is...
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    Poly Marriage Legality

    If I ever get in a poly relationship I would much prefer to be legally married to all of my spouses, rather than just married to one. Also, if I had to choose between which signif to marry it would kinda seem like favoritism.
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    Poly Marriage Legality

    I came here with a simple question, if homosexual marriage is legal, why is polyamorous? I'm mostly talking about triads, because a V would basically just be getting married twice without a divorce, but this is for them, too. Is there anything in the bible against polyamory? I'm not saying I've...
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    Just a litltle about us

    Hi, I'm fairly new to the forum, also, so welcome! It seems like you guys want a bit of freedom while still holding eachother as top priority! I love that! I would assume that this would be good for your marriage as long as nothing bad happens! I would highly recommend telling your children...
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    the 12 hour post editing limit

    A 5 minute window would make sense to erase any errors but not be a jerk to repliers
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