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    Why does it always have to be at my house?

    Lol. I believe you are spot on. I was allowing it. I hold a lot of power in this relationship. My husband will bend over backwards for me. At the same time I have no desire for that power and sure as hell don't want to abuse it. I want to be reasonable about it my requests. Some times I...
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    Why does it always have to be at my house?

    Thanks all for the help and advice. It's nice to have a sounding board that is not too close to the situation. It sounds like we are on the right course but still more work to do. And yes, I know I have some things to work on as well. I believe in 'mi casa su casa'. So I am reasonably okay...
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    Why does it always have to be at my house?

    It used to be two to three times a week on average. Since we talked it is once, sometimes twice. So it is much better, though it is something I struggle with. Is it wrong for me to limit the amount of times his other partners stays over? Shouldn't it be his choice on how much time he wants to...
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    Why does it always have to be at my house?

    I would be bored as hell for sure never going out. I don't know how they do it. I prefer to be out and about with my partners. I want to show them off to everyone. But hey, to each their own I suppose. Though in fairness, my home is not that boring of a place. We are lifestylers and have a...
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    Why does it always have to be at my house?

    Thanks. As stated, I do already arrange to stay other places when they are together, this kind of makes getting another space redundant. But your solution does answer my question in a round about way. It is not normal to feel unwelcome in my own home and such I should seek a space that is just...
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    Why does it always have to be at my house?

    My husband and I are poly. We both have been since we met almost ten years ago. We are open and can date others as long as we do so within our established rules. Sometimes we date people together. Those are probably the most fulfilling but are also much more complex, in my experience. He has...
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    Poly and Loving it.

    Thanks all for your responses. This is a pretty cool place. I am already finding it helpful.
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    Poly and Loving it.

    Hi, I hope I am posting this in the right place. Some of the posts looked more like a dating site so I am not sure. To be clear, I am not looking to find a date or anyone at this time. I have been poly for some time; turns out all my life, but only active in it for the last decade when my...
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