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You’re right about me not being as okay with it as I think I am, because I know I am not fully okay with it, because it brings up feelings of insecurities within myself. I acknowledge that. I just recently started therapy sessions as well as couples counseling with my wife to get over that...

I’ll keep it short, I feel as though I’ve got a simple question to ask, maybe it’s more complicated than that since I’m not the one who is poly, my wife is. I’m okay with this, I don’t want it for myself. Mod note: NewToPoly's prior threads on this topic...

I’m sorry if this post doesn’t belong here. My wife is relatively new to poly. We’ve been together for 8 years and married for 6 years. She didn’t tell me about her being poly until almost 5 years into the marriage. She’s also bisexual and that I’ve known the entire time. I’ve made a post...

Lot of abbreviations there I’m not familiar with. I want my wife to be herself and who she is and happy. With or without me. I’m not sure how to approach it or just be direct about it. I’m not going to change my feelings nor do I want her to not be who she wants/needs to be. If male...

I am now and will forever be monogamous. I’ve told her this, I have no desire to be with anyone else. She’s encouraged me more than once to “give it a try” and I have no desire. I want her to be who she is and happy. Whether that’s with or without me.

What did you mean by look at trying to be more flexible?

I understand that. I’m not going to “force” her into one and not the other. If it’s something she wants and I don’t, we’ll part ways. No malicious intent behind it. Just wanting different things is okay.

I read over similar posts in the r/poly subreddit and only got met with OPs feeling be invalidated. Preferences are preferences, who am I to judge what someone wants to have in their relationship? I think we’re all entitled to feel how we want to feel and not have to change that because...

Im going to keep this short and sweet. My (30M) wife (26F) is bisexual/poly. She waited until well into our relationship and after marriage to tell me this. She said she’s felt like this her whole life. When she first told me, I did mention I’m not comfortable with her being with another...