A quick hello from Colorado

[feedthebear]

Hello everyone.

I am a 26 year old trans man and father who has very recently realized that I am polyamorous and have since tumbled down this rabbit hole of feelings and information that i'm not entirely sure how to deal with. I'm really hopeful that I can find some support not only for me, but for my monogomous fiance who is not handling this revelation of mine very easily.

I've recently fallen in love with a couple who did not consider themselves polyamorous, but who both have developed feelings for me as strongly as I have for them. My fiance knows about the other couple and my feelings toward them and after an initial very negative reaction, she is trying to understand and accept this... It's a very delicate situation and I am struggling with how to traverse all of this, especially as the middle man in the whole situation as the couple are not romantically interested in my fiance and my fiance is not romantically interested in them. Anyway, I guess that's a little bit about me...

Hope everyone is well,
Adam

 

[Spork]

Hi Adam!

I love how there are so many on this forum from our beautiful state.

Nice to "meet" you!

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings Adam,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I sympathize with you about the difficulty your fiancée is having in understanding and accepting your poly inclinations and involvement with the other couple. I hope things will get easier. I wonder if she would be willing to lurk here or even join, and post. Hearing what people here have to say might help ease her discomfort. We tend to fear the unfamiliar.

In any case I'm glad you're with us.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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