Hey everyone
Curious to what to do in this situation.
My partner and I (both female) have recently been broken off with by a partner (male)
Our communication together was fantastic and the three of us were happy but M didn’t really know if the dynamic would be something that would work for him long term.
F and I completely understood and respected his decision. We were both gutted it had to end but we want the best for him and remaining friends is something very important to us.
Two weeks has passed and M has contacted us saying he’s not sure if he’s made the right decision breaking it off with us and his head is a mess about it all.
F has decided to give him space but I’m very much someone who wants to check in on people everyday if I know they’re having a bad time.
I just want to know what you guys think would be the right way to deal with it and best way to approach communication wise? He is aware of how we feel and that we are here to support him whatever he decides. Give him space or just continue chatting as if everything’s okay?
Curious to what to do in this situation.
My partner and I (both female) have recently been broken off with by a partner (male)
Our communication together was fantastic and the three of us were happy but M didn’t really know if the dynamic would be something that would work for him long term.
F and I completely understood and respected his decision. We were both gutted it had to end but we want the best for him and remaining friends is something very important to us.
Two weeks has passed and M has contacted us saying he’s not sure if he’s made the right decision breaking it off with us and his head is a mess about it all.
F has decided to give him space but I’m very much someone who wants to check in on people everyday if I know they’re having a bad time.
I just want to know what you guys think would be the right way to deal with it and best way to approach communication wise? He is aware of how we feel and that we are here to support him whatever he decides. Give him space or just continue chatting as if everything’s okay?
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