(Almost) new to Poly and to the forum

justmyelf

New member
Hello there,

As per the title, I am almost new to both poly and this forum. I am saying almost because it is not too long since my partner and I opened our couple-- about 1 year or so. (I am terrible with dates and anniversaries in general 😛, thank god there is Google Calendar.) Also, I am almost new to the forum because I used, from the beginning of this path, to read/lurk here, finding a lot of new or old threads.

Till now, I would say opening up our couple is working pretty well. I am not measuring the success based on the number of partners/new relationships we have had after one year. That is clearly not the right metric. It is, for me, more the fact that we talk about everything a lot more, including our feelings and our desires, and this has had a huge benefit on our couple dynamic.

So, this message is to introduce myself and thank the forum for a lot of resources and precious experiences that have helped me on the rocky path.

Cheers.
 
Greetings justmyelf,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

It is good to hear that Polyamory.com has been helpful to you in the past. Now you can participate more, and get more out of it as people can respond to you directly. So far, it sounds like polyamory has been a positive influence in your life, you and your partner are closer than ever to each other. Glad to have you with us!

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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Welcome aboard!
 
Thanks Kevin for the welcome message, I will for sure keep reading/lurking/using links, but surely i will also start asking questions, and seeking advice.

thanks again
 
No problem, glad to have you with us.
 
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