mercedesbens
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My husband and I are looking for a unicorn. We live in Hawaii but we're from Cali.
So yeah. That's why we're here.
So yeah. That's why we're here.
Aloha everyone
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Hi. Welcome to polyamory.com. Just so you know, this is not a dating site. It's a forum for discussing polyamory topics, sharing experiences, asking questions, etc., about multi-relationship dynamics. It's recommended to look at our Guidelines if you're confused.
If you are looking for a "unicorn," I'd ask you to please read this, as we ask all couples coming here seeking a "third" to "add to their relationship."
And you might want to read around our board by searching the terms "unicorn," or "triad." Also, these articles from our Golden Nuggets section might be informative:
www.readyforpolyamory.com
davidlnoble.livejournal.com
If you are looking for a "unicorn," I'd ask you to please read this, as we ask all couples coming here seeking a "third" to "add to their relationship."
And you might want to read around our board by searching the terms "unicorn," or "triad." Also, these articles from our Golden Nuggets section might be informative:
Triad or V - What's More Complicated?
I get a lot of people new to polyamory insisting that they must date together, or meet people together, because it "will be less complicated." I see this in comments on social media, on dating app profiles, on couple's profiles on social media (that black and red one that starts with an F...
www.readyforpolyamory.com
So, someone called you a Unicorn Hunter?
This article is a long, technical discussion of what being a "Unicorn Hunter" means, what's wrong with it, and how people in such a situation can try to avoid the negative stereotypes associated with such behavior and get the things that they are ultimately looking for. It is written in a…
davidlnoble.livejournal.com
Greetings mercedesbens,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
I hope you and your husband find the right person for you. In the meantime, take advantage of Polyamory.com, explore the various threads and boards, and let us know if you have any questions.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.
Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.
If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.
Welcome aboard!
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
I hope you and your husband find the right person for you. In the meantime, take advantage of Polyamory.com, explore the various threads and boards, and let us know if you have any questions.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.
Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.
If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.
Welcome aboard!