Moon&Stars
New member
So my spouse and I have been poly for awhile. We both have seen people individually but nothing long term. Lately, I noticed them getting really close with a friend of ours. This friend expressed being poly and I knew something would grow out of it. It's like she wanted to hint that she was interested. Well, my spouse told me that they were interested in this friend and literally the same day they said the friend "confessed" to liking them. I said I was fine with it. They have been talking nonstop and my spouse has planned a trip to see this friend (they live in another state). The friend has made a weird effort to try to hang out with me virtually as if she feels guilty. My spouse says that the friend is anxious that I don't want to be friends with her anymore. I kind of don't. Am I just jealous or am I afraid of losing a friend?