Any help?

[kdt26417]

You will do fine, keep us posted here as your situation evolves, and we will keep giving up-to-date help and advice.

 

[HaloOnFire]

And yes they are being friendly and getting on and I have reassured red

Personally, for what it's worth, I think your wanting to relieve Red from his insecurities is commendable. IMO, if you're actually partners in a relationship, relief of insecurity should be the goal of everyone involved.

Oh, and welcome to the board!