Any other gay male trinogamous relationships?
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redpepper
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What is "trinogamy," please? Do you mean a relationship between three people-- a triad?
To answer your question, or at least to attempt to, there are many threads here on triad relationships. Whether they are gay or not might not be specified, but we have had gay people discuss their issues here. I find it usually doesn't make too much of a difference what identity one takes with such things. People are people, love is love, and we are all trying to figure this poly thing out.
You might want to try doing a search for "triads," "vees," "queer," "homosexual," or anything else that looks interesting.
If you ask a specific question or bring up a specific topic, that might help us help you, also.
To answer your question, or at least to attempt to, there are many threads here on triad relationships. Whether they are gay or not might not be specified, but we have had gay people discuss their issues here. I find it usually doesn't make too much of a difference what identity one takes with such things. People are people, love is love, and we are all trying to figure this poly thing out.
You might want to try doing a search for "triads," "vees," "queer," "homosexual," or anything else that looks interesting.
If you ask a specific question or bring up a specific topic, that might help us help you, also.
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AnnabelMore
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My understanding is that it refers specifically to a sexually-fidelitous triad, like "monogamy" but with "tri" in place of "mono". It's actually a cute and clever term. But yeah, I've never seen it used here, though we discuss the concept of poly-fi triads all the time. It seems like it's a word used much more by the gay male community, and I'm not sure why.
I seem to recall another poster from a while back who was in an all-dude triad, but I don't remember his name.
I seem to recall another poster from a while back who was in an all-dude triad, but I don't remember his name.
RfromRMC
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Howdy, that's me. After a long absence, I am back, no longer in a triad though... single again.
But to the Original Poster---if you have any questions or want some insights I'd be very very happy to share whatever I can. I'm already giving another MMM triad a few pointers here and there of things that I know don't work well.
If others can learn from our mistakes, I'm happy to be an open book for ya.In the meantime, if you wanna read about some successful male triads, there is this article: http://www.gayexpress.co.nz/2011/09/threes-no-crowd/
and this one: http://tinyurl.com/4vcjckm
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