bajacuck
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Good morning everybody. My wife and I sat down and had a talk about 4 years ago and opened up about our fantasies, kinks and fetishes we had been too nervous to share.
One of the things my wife mentioned was swinging. My response to that was that I loved the idea of her being with other men but that I didn't feel the need to be with another woman. We talked off and on about that, making hints and jokes for a few years, but not really doing anything about it.
Recently my wife became very good friends with a woman who it turns out is in an open relationship. My wife and her friend have talked a lot about the other couples marriage, they have agreed to see other people and just not talk about it between them, but knowing another "normal" woman, mother, wife who is in a similar lifestyle gave my wife the confidence and reassurance that this was not a bat shit crazy thing.
So a few weeks ago my wife and I were at a friends party. These friends live on the beach on a fairly large lot, they had a DJ and bonfire going etc so people were pretty spread out. The DJ got going, my wife LOVES to dance and I absolutely hate dancing, so I left her to do her thing and went to sit as soon as a comfy seat opened up. Pretty soon a guy (neither of us had ever met before) walked up and started dancing with her. They danced a little and then he got pretty handsy with her, she came over and made sure I knew what was happening and was ok with it. I assured her I was enjoying what I was seeing and she went back to him.
They ended up kissing and making out, his hands were al over her and I was loving the show. That was the end of it that night, they made out for an hour and a half or so and we left.
My wife and I talked about that a lot over the next couple of days and she was absolutely giddy. She couldn't concentrate to save her life, it was amazing to see her like that. My wife is 57 and this guy is 32 so she absolutely loved that a guy his age wanted her so badly. She decided that she wasn't going to pursue him though because there was another guy she was more excited about. A little over a week later, she was in our vacation rental property getting rooms ready for people coming in that night and the guy from the party texted her wanting to talk. She invited him over to the property to talk and from what she tells me they talked about 5 minutes than were fucking wildly in the bed she had just washed the sheets on...
So anyway, that is our hotwife origin story
One of the things my wife mentioned was swinging. My response to that was that I loved the idea of her being with other men but that I didn't feel the need to be with another woman. We talked off and on about that, making hints and jokes for a few years, but not really doing anything about it.
Recently my wife became very good friends with a woman who it turns out is in an open relationship. My wife and her friend have talked a lot about the other couples marriage, they have agreed to see other people and just not talk about it between them, but knowing another "normal" woman, mother, wife who is in a similar lifestyle gave my wife the confidence and reassurance that this was not a bat shit crazy thing.
So a few weeks ago my wife and I were at a friends party. These friends live on the beach on a fairly large lot, they had a DJ and bonfire going etc so people were pretty spread out. The DJ got going, my wife LOVES to dance and I absolutely hate dancing, so I left her to do her thing and went to sit as soon as a comfy seat opened up. Pretty soon a guy (neither of us had ever met before) walked up and started dancing with her. They danced a little and then he got pretty handsy with her, she came over and made sure I knew what was happening and was ok with it. I assured her I was enjoying what I was seeing and she went back to him.
They ended up kissing and making out, his hands were al over her and I was loving the show. That was the end of it that night, they made out for an hour and a half or so and we left.
My wife and I talked about that a lot over the next couple of days and she was absolutely giddy. She couldn't concentrate to save her life, it was amazing to see her like that. My wife is 57 and this guy is 32 so she absolutely loved that a guy his age wanted her so badly. She decided that she wasn't going to pursue him though because there was another guy she was more excited about. A little over a week later, she was in our vacation rental property getting rooms ready for people coming in that night and the guy from the party texted her wanting to talk. She invited him over to the property to talk and from what she tells me they talked about 5 minutes than were fucking wildly in the bed she had just washed the sheets on...
So anyway, that is our hotwife origin story
