Changing a mono relationship to poly

I'm sorry. No break up is ever fun. Even when maybe it was the best thing in a situation.

I hope over time you experience healing, get to work on your personal stuff like you want, and when you are ready to date again? You can enjoy healthier open/poly with more compatible partner(s).

Galagirl
 
Violet77 said:
Yea maybe, he just broke up with me today also, im really sad
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I am so sorry to hear this. If you don't have any counseling appointments, I would recommend making one. Also take time for yourself and most importantly, make peace with yourself. Easier said than done, I know.

I wish you peace in this phase of your journey. I know how difficult this path is, but you will come out ahead, I promise.
 
Violet77 said:
@Polymark
thats really what you have to say to someone in pain, be sent off. You don't really know how he treated me.
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Was I too direct for you? And your right we don’t know how he treated you. We only know how you treated him because that is what you shared.

If he treated you bad, you could have broken up with him. Would that not have been a better idea than staying in the relationship and using his bad behavior to justify your own bad behavior?

If you make excuses and don’t hold yourself accountable how are you going to do better next time?
 
No there's a difference between being direct and inflicting more pain on someone. I can do better next time without someone I don't know rubbing in the pain
 
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