Another 70% vent 30% question.
When given the option, I usually opt for meeting my metas, than deciding on my own judgment what kinda dynamic I want with this person. I've mentioned Heather and her exsented polycule before--they play a large part in Connie's life.
I've been around Heather alot, but the rest I've only met once: braless, after getting 'we just called 911' call, in the wee hours of the morning. Heather is lovely; how she remains sane with all she has on her plate, I don't know. She has so few spoons we've yet to have a coherent small talk chat with each other. Connie has wanted us to all hang out together--when I went asking if there would be any interest in all of us celebrating a special event of Connie's, I got a brick wall. Although thinking about it now, it's realistic that passing around contact info was just too much for Heather at the time.
For the record, I have no issues with Connie getting a double dose of whatever, or being separated from that polycule.
I had the opportunity formally meet the rest of the polycule tonight, and I turned it down. I have a lot on my plate at the moment, but a light at the end of the tunnel (woo vacation, ugh prepping for vacation). I just want to be more than a zombie state when I meet important people.
That's fair right?
When given the option, I usually opt for meeting my metas, than deciding on my own judgment what kinda dynamic I want with this person. I've mentioned Heather and her exsented polycule before--they play a large part in Connie's life.
I've been around Heather alot, but the rest I've only met once: braless, after getting 'we just called 911' call, in the wee hours of the morning. Heather is lovely; how she remains sane with all she has on her plate, I don't know. She has so few spoons we've yet to have a coherent small talk chat with each other. Connie has wanted us to all hang out together--when I went asking if there would be any interest in all of us celebrating a special event of Connie's, I got a brick wall. Although thinking about it now, it's realistic that passing around contact info was just too much for Heather at the time.
For the record, I have no issues with Connie getting a double dose of whatever, or being separated from that polycule.
I had the opportunity formally meet the rest of the polycule tonight, and I turned it down. I have a lot on my plate at the moment, but a light at the end of the tunnel (woo vacation, ugh prepping for vacation). I just want to be more than a zombie state when I meet important people.
That's fair right?
