Expanding my horizons in NJ


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over the past few years I have been focusing on who I am rather than how I want to be seen. My work, my friends , my hobbies and especially my romantic relationships were not me…or at least not fully me.
As far back as I can remember I was told my interests were odd, weird and sometimes filthy. Once I explored a few of my kinks I was able to meet people like myself, people open to exploration of desires, things and people we find attractive and deep communication.
The ability to accept others for who they are has given me the opportunity to accept who I am. I am a Fun, playful, nudist, ENM, bi-curious at times, Tantra, enamored with bodies and exploring them but I love deep meaningful communication above all else.
Greetings Fit50,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

It sounds like Polyamory.com will make a nice second home for you; folks here are generally open-minded and will aid you in your journey of discovering and accepting yourself. Also if you haven't tried FetLife yet, definitely give it a try. In the meantime I'm glad you could be here; let us know if you have any questions and who knows, you may be able to answer a few people's questions yourself.

Kevin T., "official greeter" :)


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Okay cool. I am on FetLife as kdt26417, the same as I am here.