I was not one of the original commenters, but I have now read all of this thread, as well as your other thread, and recognized all of the commenters. You had quite a dilemma on your hands back in those days. I am glad to hear that things seem to be working out for the best. That's so remarkable that the man she married advanced enough inside that he was willing to open their relationship -- yay! Now you can have just a little of that relationship with her that you were originally hoping to have.