Fun and Frolic With Long-Term Love

NYCIndie - not this post, the other last post. ��

I did a thing today.

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You totally can't tell by just looking at me, if I am just being normal though.

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Better lighting, so you can see the color brightness.

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Up. I have an undercut!!!

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I totally have to reapply hair color now. Lol My roots are white way under there!

I totally just decided I wanted to do this, this morning. Complete spur of the moment.
 
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The new hairstyle looks like fun!!! :)
 
I wore it down today because I was teaching, and none of the kids had a clue!
 
Oh! I didn't realize that all of the pics were actually the new hairstyle! I thought we were seeing before and after. I love that kind of style!
 
Nah. All of after. :)
 
OMG I am so sick. It's all PunkRock's fault - he brought this plague upon me. And then I gave it to DarkKnight. I've had a sore throat since Tuesday, but today I can't stop blowing my nose. The sore throat still sucks! All of our medicine and tissues are packed away, so I will have to do some specific shopping today!

Speaking of shopping, Prime members can try Amazon Fresh free for one month, so I signed up last night and placed a grocery order. I spent about what I normally would at the store, but now it's going to be delivered to my front porch! I am interested to see how it goes. Last night's 10 pm order promises to be here Friday morning. I was able to add a couple of things to it today, so that was kinda cool. We will see how it goes!

I spent all day yesterday with both of my daughters at the old house. My oldest was upstairs cleaning for like 8 hours! That's pretty terrible - I had no idea it would take so long, but she did a deep clean and all of those rooms are bedrooms with carpets. 2 full bathrooms too. Today she is going to do the main level of the house. I hired someone online to come over and clean the basement today - I am hoping they don't flake and that they do a good job! I sent them photos and they quoted me exactly what my daughter said it was worth, so that was a good first sign. Supposedly she used to own a cleaning business for 15 years.

Anyway, while my oldest daughter was cleaning, my youngest was loading her car with stuff she had forgotten that she owned, and then she packed up more of PunkRock's art supplies in the basement. I spent the entire time running an online yardsale, with strict appointment times. I posted a bunch of pictures with prices, and then people PMed me and I gave them a time to show up and buy that item and look over the other junk we had. It was really busy but totally worth the time! I had planned to do an indoor yard sale with signs and such, much more traditional, but then decided all the pricing and advertising and merchandising would eat into my life too much. It worked out great and I was able to get rid of all the really large junky pieces of furniture I would have had a hard time getting the Salvation Army to take! This was a bonus also because none of the junky stuff would fit into our cars to transport, even to the dump, so selling it or giving it away online worked perfectly. I went from having items in 6 rooms and the garage to having only stuff in my dining room, and the garage now has a small pile for the Habitat for Humanity Restore, and they are coming tomorrow to pick up our donation.

Today my plan is to fill my car with stuff from the dining room and make a couple of trips to the Salvation Army or Goodwill. Wherever. I just want it all gone! It's all random things - kitchenware, clothing, curtains. I won't miss any of it! I have a couple of other larger furniture pieces to sell that I didn't yesterday - an art table that was in use at the time, a jewelry armoire and another smaller side table. I think they will sell easily.

I don't have any new house pics to add here, but we did hear back from our contractor - it's going to cost $1500 to $2000 for a brand new basement floor, which includes the supports and plywood subfloor. The plan is to lay it over the existing concrete mess that is there now, after PunkRock tears out all the wall paneling, terrible linoleum and ancient carpets, and then Drylocks everything. We really need to schedule this ASAP, but there is no time! We have a trip to iKEA planned this Saturday, and then on Sunday he is finishing the living room fireplace wall.

I just wish I felt better. Being sick slows everything down!
 
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All of us are still sick. Last night was terrible for me and today was marginally better. I did have a burst of energy, midday, so I did some cleaning up around the new place and hung up an art project I worked on and finished as well:

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I think I might have posted this when I bought it a while back from a thrift store. I actually got two of them for $8, and both were missing lots of the little end mirror pieces. So, today I gutted one and hot glued the pieces to the other, to make one finished item. It now hangs at the end of my hallway, outside the bathroom door. That's pretty much been it for the work on my new house after the last few days.

We are canceling Pandemic again tomorrow, because there is no way all of us are going to be feeling well all at once. This bums me out considerably. That said, what upsets me more is that PunkRock and I had plans to go to IKEA and now we aren't doing that either, but for an entirely different reason. See, when he got his bonus check this week, he gave me part of it and kept back a portion for himself, saying he would give it to me out of his paycheck on Friday - today. I thought that sounded fine, because we were planning on funding our IKEA visit with that bit, and that wasn't until Saturday.

PunkRock had me sell off our old nightstands and now we need a replacement. Well, not only did he fail to give me the entire amount earlier in the week that he had stated - with no explanation - but today he told me that his check was shorter than expected and now he has NONE of the money for IKEA. Whenever I tried to discuss this with him and how it made me feel disappointed and a little upset, he just kind of clammed up and wouldn't say anything at all. I have no idea what was more important than what we had planned, and he won't talk about it or even apologize, so that makes me irritated. That's in addition to the fact that I wouldn't have sold the old ones at all, if I didn't know we weren't getting replacements right away, and I certainly don't have anything extra in the budget to kick that direction and won't for a long while. I mean, the not having a nightstand is irritating, but the fact he isn't talking to me about this is more upsetting.
 
Ikea (and Walmart) have little tables with screw on legs for under $10 a piece. They're really simple but if it were a choice of getting those or no bed side tables, I'd get those until you can afford to buy the ones you want. Especially since PunkRock has sleep apnea. It's really annoying to have your cpap machine on the floor (I have sleep apnea too and have done the machine on the floor thing and it's irritating). I have this one in my living room and it's simple but looks good. I have the light brown one in my bedroom as a nightstand. http://m.ikea.com/us/en/catalog/products/art/20011408/
 
Yeah, I would rather kept the ones we had! They were actually purchased like 20 years ago, when I was first married to my ex husband. Sturdy and strong and though they wouldn't have matched our new color scheme, at least they wouldn't be cheap and rickety. Sigh.

At this point I need to sit down and run numbers for our budget coming up this month. Not to worry about nightstands though, but to work out putting in the basement subfloor and then figuring on what will be on top of that. I had DarkKnight transfer funds into savings this morning to put toward all of those plans, but I haven't crunched numbers in a while. Honestly But i don't know if I will do it today - I am still feeling pretty terrible. My sore throat is completely gone though, so that is a relief. However, my nose is still running and I have a cough. Mainly my plan is to rest as much as possible.
 
OMG I am dying. This cold is terrible. The sore throat is gone, but my nose won't stop leaking and now I have a cough. I just want it OVER so I can move forward with everything I need to be doing that isn't laying in bed and being miserable.

One good thing to come out of this sickness is that I have discovered how much I love my new refrigerator. The icemaker is amazing and I have been drinking cup after cup of fresh filtered water with crushed ice. I have just been inhaling it. Yay new fridge!

DarkKnight's cousin is due back over today and he and and PunkRock are supposed to grout the fireplace and finally sand the inside of my new closet and the living room walls. What else? Trimwork around the hearth and if there is is time I would love to have the thresholds in the kitchen put down and the baseboards nailed up. Trying not to get my hopes up though - the priority is the living room today!

PunkRock did put some floor tile down in the kitchen last night and the main bathroom shower curtain has now been installed.

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The bathroom is narrow so it's difficult to get a good picture, and I was feeing miserable so I wasn't apt to try harder. Lol

Last night before slamming NyQuil in hopes of getting a little sleep, I started feeling a bit horny, so I asked PunkRock if he'd like to assist me with the vibrator he bought me a couple months ago. I didn't want to do anything crazy because moving too much sets off a coughing fit. That said, after a few seconds of his attentions, he was rock hard and ready to go, so we both said the hell with it and I had half a dozen orgasms between the vibe and his penis. It was glorious, even though my illness came back in full force once we were done.

Today is Sunday and I am bummed because this is the second one in a row where I haven't been able to weigh myself as scheduled. The scale is still packed and I don't want to get inaccurate numbers by using a different one. The thing is, my daughter says she packed it in an unmarked box. Sigh. So i will prolly find it months from now! I feel like I have lost more weight, but how much, I dare not estimate.
 
Sorry you're sick but yay for PunkRockHardPenis!
 
I just got home from Urgent Care. My doctor's office was full up. Apparently I have bronchitis now, and my fever was 101. Cray cray - I didn't even check to see if I had a fever! I just know that this morning I started coughing up yellow and green and I felt really dizzy. I started crying when I was trying to leave and I couldn't find my cell phone. Sigh. I am an idiot sometimes.

Good news is that their scale showed me at 11 pounds lost. I think it's probably more than that, since different scales give varying results. I am really interested to see what mine says when I finally find it again in one of these boxes!

I need to stop writing now because the editing I am having to do to make this coherent is insane.
 
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Haha PunkRockHardPenis!!!!
 
I lost almost an entire journal entry the other day, but I am not really caring. Lol

The final walkthrough on our rental place is finished and done, thank goodness. They dinged us for the carpet in my daughter's room, as I knew they would. $150 isn't too bad, and my daughter said she would cover anything that was her fault. I have her a $50 credit for all the cleaning she did do, and then when she gave me the $100, I immediately turned around and bought her the BlueRay box set of all of the Harry Potter movies that she had been saying she wanted so badly. DarkKnight called me a sucker but I just laughed. I love my little girl, what can I say? :)

Our new living room furniture is being delivered tomorrow morning, and since PunkRock has the day off today, he is spackling and finishing the painting in the living room. He got half done on Sunday this week, but couldn't finish until we rearranged the boxes. Hopefully he can slap two coats up quick, because I will have to arrange the existing bookcases and cabinet, and then unpack everything to make room for the new stuff! I am not yet feeling 100% yet. In fact, today was the first day I have been out of the house in quite a while.

My fever persisted all day Monday and Tuesday. Last night, I sat at the kitchen table and opened boxes and handed items off to DarkKnight, so I wouldn't feel like a complete millstone. Ugh. It did help, though there are a lot of boxes yet to be touched in there! I am insisting on running everything through the dishwasher after unpacking, so there are a great many items that will be in boxes for a while!
 
Things are looking good in the living room - all of the furniture is here and arranged, and I managed to unpack about 80% of the boxes in this space! What's left is artwork and all of the DVDs. I hope to work on that some today. We now need to purchase some other furniture - I have a space by the front door that is sadly lacking. What would fit there, I don't know!

So far today I have been working on budgeting. I paid our second mortgage payment online, and used a $10 off $10 purchase JCPenney coupon to get PunkRock a new pair of pajama pants for $3. I also found out that we are owed a $224 credit from our electric company, so I had to call and be on hold for 15 minutes to get them to "process" this "request." Glad I called, because apparently unless you do, they don't disburse the funds. Fuckers.

I have a huge stack of papers to read through that need my attention regarding service providers and craftsman who want to do work on our place. Also, I need to do some filing. So not motivated. Right now I want food.
 
DarkKnight and I are together in the living room tonight, getting caught up on the last 4 episodes of The Expanse. While I am in between episodes, I thought I'd post some in progress pics.

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It's coming along! That's ColePorter, chilling in the new chair.
 
More progress:

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DarkKnight and I had an entire date day yesterday - he treated me to Quiznos for lunch (I skip the bread - still on my diet!) and then we went and saw the Power Rangers movie. It was way better than what it had any right to be! We had a good time. Anyway, we had Ruby Tuesday for dinner and then came home and I finished unpacking the DVDs and did some more digging out in the kitchen. We had Les Miserables playing in the background at full volume, and then I had REM's Road Movie going. (That's on the TV in the picture, though you can't tell at all.)

The living room has one more box to empty, and that's it! However, you can see I have artwork stashed in corners, and nothing is permanent, really. PunkRock is going to grout and trim the fireplace today, as last weekend we decided it best to focus on painting. After the fireplace finish, we need to prime and paint baseboards in here - as well as put some up! - and I need to purchase a single panel fireplace screen, a coffee table and some lamps. I have the budget for these, but no time. Oh, and there are ceiling touchups needed.

Kitchen stuffs: I continue to unpack boxes every day with DarkKnight. Usually it's one or two, since they get directly unloaded into the dishwasher. We still need baseboards and trim put up in here, but that's on hold until the boxes are all emptied out. The flooring is finished, but the thresholds still need to be installed. All of my cabinet fronts are still down in the basement, and honesty, it will just continue to feel like chaos in here to me until I can shut the damn doors and hide everything. Lol Touchups abound in here and those are driving me crazy.

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That green looks amazing with the grey next to it! Loving all the hard work you all are doing- and really glad to read you're feeling better. Did the bronchitis/pneumonia clear up?
 
Yes, I am feeling loads better! Thanks for asking. The Z pack worked, but now I am suffering from acid reflux since I had to stop taking my prescription while on the azithromycin. I'm two days back on it and I can't wait for it to kick back in and start working again!

I had a specialist come out today and look at my chimney, but he will have to come back next week because the flue opener or whatever you call it is at DarkKnight's cousin's house. He is covering the brass metal knob with a silver tone, so it is updated to match the changes we've made. So, no expert opinion on the state of the mortar today, since you can't currently look up the chimney. Lol

Tonight is Film League and PunkRock and I are going to see Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. He's never seen it but I have and I remember really liking it. :) I feel pretty fierce today too, as I bought two new skirts from a LuLaRoe consultant and I am wearing a bright green one. Maybe I will post a pic later!
 
Haha Well after I posted, DarkKnight went on break and agreed to take a couple of photos. I am not happy but he refuses to take more, so you'll have to wait longer. My face looked weird, I think. Whatever. Here's a selfie to make me feel better:

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I'm on day 2 of my period, so I am really loving this skirt though - it gives my bloat room to breathe. LMAO It's a Cassie, for y'all LuLaRoe lovers. I bought it on a bus, for real. Apparently this consultant sells out of a bus. I was like, for real?! But it totally was. I wouldn't have bought a Cassie if I hadn't tried one on first, but I ended up getting two.
 
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