Hello from newbie

Harggy

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Hi, I'm new to poly, in my first poly relationship which is a year in. We've been poly from day one and have just moved in together. It's hard. So I'm here looking for support and advice to help make it work :)
 
Moving in together is often hard. With my last long term relationship before my marriage, the moving in phase was a struggle. By about month four or five, perhaps both, I'd be heading home on a Friday night wondering what we were going to fight about that weekend. It was never a big fight, a little more than a bicker, not a deal breaker, it was just learning to live together, and that was just two of us.

We persevered until about 4 years later other issues broke us up.
 
Hi Evie :)

Thanks for sharing xx

This is the 4th relationship I've lived with. His first. It is about learning to accommodate each other :) however this being my first poly relationship makes the struggles unusual for me and as such I'm not wquipt with the tools to deal with them.

But I'm learning xx
 
Greetings Harggy,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I hope Polyamory.com's been helpful for you so far. I did look at your other thread and posted there briefly.

Glad you could join us!
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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