Hello from Utah

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ManOfAvalon

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I am a 59 year old polyamorous man from Utah. I discovered polyamory about 6 years ago. It immediately clicked with me. It truly seemed to be a beautiful alternative to Monogamy. Unfortunately I have not yet found any poly matches. Seems there isn't a lot of interest in a single straight man in his 50s. I am still hoping and looking.

Anyway, I just thought I would say hi.
 
Greetings ManOfAvalon,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I hope you'll find what you're looking for, I think it is harder for men. I used to live in Utah myself. Long, long ago.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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Sad to say that is so true. I am a mid 50's married man which doesn't make it any easier that being a single male, especially when your poly wife has a string of interested males wanting to meet. Never give up because I know people that have looked for 9 years.
 
Yes, don't give up.
 
It's a shame, too. I'm a big fan of "older" men (relative term, because I'm 37.) Men in their late 40's to late 50's have been some of the best lovers I've yet to encounter. Women who have not had that, and who believe that youth, size, and/or stamina are the keys to a good time in the bedroom are, I believe, REALLY missing out.

Some of us know better.

I hope you find the love you seek.
 
Thank you very much. It is nice to know that some appreciate older man.

This does bring up interesting observation about poly dating. I believe that a substantial percentage of the poly community still make dating choices based on the same qualifications they had for Monogamy. This does not surprise me. When I discovered polyamory, I revaluated every aspect of dating, romance and attraction. Age was one that I no longer consider. What really matters to me now is compatibility.
 
That makes sense.
 
ManOfAvalon said:
When I discovered polyamory, I revaluated every aspect of dating, romance and attraction. Age was one that I no longer consider. What really matters to me now is compatibility.
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You are on a right track. Age really does not matter. I have had both older and younger lovers, and age has very little to do with compatibility - as long as the person is an adult. Also, I agree with Spork - there is some special charm in older men. Hope you will find what you are looking for!
 
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