Hi, my name is Mike. I am starting to explore poly relationships, or something close to it. My partner is really into women, but I don't want to come off like a unicorn hunter. I have a strong aversion to males and trans females since I have past SA from childhood. I am dipping my toes in this and trying to be respectful of a potential partner for her/us. I want to find a meaningful relationship for her, while maintaining her and my boundaries. I am 37 years old. New to this kind of thing but super excited to help my partner 36 F explore a side of her that she has never been able to do in a healthy non-toxic way.
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If you are brand new to polyamory, you may not understand that polyamory does not mean "group sex," or "threesomes," or sharing one partner with your partner. Please do a search here for "triads," or "unicorn hunter." We must have hundreds of posts on this topic.
Also, there are a few articles about the differences between "V's" and "triads/throuples" here:
Also, there are a few articles about the differences between "V's" and "triads/throuples" here:
Greetings Mike,
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Sorry to hear about your SA, I'm sure it is something you have to live with every day. I'm sorry about your strong aversion to males and trans females, you probably wish you didn't have that aversion, but, the damage is done. I hope you can find the right female for your partner, and maybe that would be a second female for you too. I'm glad you could join us!
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
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Welcome aboard!
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
Sorry to hear about your SA, I'm sure it is something you have to live with every day. I'm sorry about your strong aversion to males and trans females, you probably wish you didn't have that aversion, but, the damage is done. I hope you can find the right female for your partner, and maybe that would be a second female for you too. I'm glad you could join us!
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.
Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.
If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.
Welcome aboard!