Howdy and welcome to the group. Poly is interesting. It take a great deal of work and commitment from all parties. Read read read. Then do lots of talking. I recommend talk over text. Many misunderstandings can be avoided. If you have questions, ask away. Best wishes.
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I read your other thread, and responded there briefly. To summarize, you need to figure out whether it's poly itself, or the particular details of poly in your life, that is making things difficult for you. And who knows, maybe it's both. I hope Polyamory.com can be of some help to you.
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