Hello all. My wife and I have been together for 10 plus years. We are happily married. About a year ago my wife suggested a threesome to spice things up a bit. She also expressed her want to be with a woman. I was hesitant at first, but her excitement when she talked about it was intoxicating. It was fun to bat ideas around.
So about 6 months back, it happened with a friend of ours. It was a pleasant time. The issue is that I began to have feelings for this woman, leading up to it and afterwards. To make things more confusing for me, my wife knows about it and is encouraging the whole process. I’m confused about the whole thing, and worried that it will lead to her branching out, and eventually the end of us. I’m not saying that only I want to be the one to be with another person by any means. I want her to be happy and to find someone that she can be with. as well. Is it normal to have this fear?
So about 6 months back, it happened with a friend of ours. It was a pleasant time. The issue is that I began to have feelings for this woman, leading up to it and afterwards. To make things more confusing for me, my wife knows about it and is encouraging the whole process. I’m confused about the whole thing, and worried that it will lead to her branching out, and eventually the end of us. I’m not saying that only I want to be the one to be with another person by any means. I want her to be happy and to find someone that she can be with. as well. Is it normal to have this fear?