Help! new to poly and negotiations went badly

idealist said:
It is very possible to be in love with someone, while also being aware that the person is not right for you. Observing a person's behavior and making a rational and logical decision about being willing to pursue a serious relationship with them or not is a healthy process. You can walk away from someone you are madly in love with. It doesn't mean you don't love them. It just means you are taking care of yourself.
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Well-said. :)
 
Hhhmmm.......Hope you don't mind but I'm gonna take that advice for myself too. Very well said. I very well might have to walk away........
 
the end

It took a few days but I ended it today once and for all. I want him to be happy but more importantly I need to be happy and neither of us are. Thanks for all the support... I may show up in here babbling and getting over him... we shall see so far i am having a hard time seeing any real benefits to having him in my life. I will miss him and be sad without him but I think I was more sad and insane with him.:rolleyes:
 
twistedpair9 said:
It took a few days but I ended it today once and for all. I want him to be happy but more importantly I need to be happy and neither of us are. Thanks for all the support... I may show up in here babbling and getting over him... we shall see so far i am having a hard time seeing any real benefits to having him in my life. I will miss him and be sad without him but I think I was more sad and insane with him.:rolleyes:
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You did the right thing for your sanity. Babble all you want! :)
 
Sssoooo................... your single now!?!:D
 
laughter is an excellent medicine! just tryin to lighten the mood.
 
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