Here to FINALLY Express myself authentically :-)


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Greetings - Feel free to call me Paul (That's my name).

It's been almost 20 years (17-ish) since I've realized what "I AM" and have been feeling in terms of relationships.

Amazingly grateful to have connected with this community those years ago, and admittedly ashamed that I've been "quiet" about who I am and what I feel for the sake of others.

Here for friends, to receive advice, and to give advice that can help others in any way possible.

Thanks for the warm welcome!
Greetings Paul,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

It sounds like polyamory has been an intrinsic part of you for a long time, you just have been afraid to come out and say it. I can relate to that in that I, too, was a practicing monogamist in the beginning. Some twenty years ago I came to the realization that authentic morality is based on mutual consent, and as such polyamory is a moral construct. Anyway I hope you will make some friends here, and get and give advice. Just keep reading and posting. Glad you are with us.

Kevin T., "official greeter" :)


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