Hi, I have strong feelings for a man that I can't love

[ref2018]

I REALLY don't want this feelings, because they are more a burden than something to enjoy.

When I was a vegetarian, I used to enjoy the smell of meat being cooked on a grill, and it didn't make me any less vegetarian.

Maybe it would help if you thought of your feelings like that.

Another thing to think about is that your feelings are not what it would really be like to be in a relationship with this person on a day-to-day basis.

If that isn't helpful, then just disregard.

 

[Evie]

Now I don't think that I explained myself properly🤣🤣
I don't want to say anything to him or to do anything with him.
I want my feelings to disappear, to evaporate, to go and never come back.

What I'm searching are suggestion on how to make my feelings fade.

I REALLY don't want this feelings, because they are more a burden than something to enjoy.

Time, usually. Just like we lose feelings after a break up (perhaps proportional to the time we were together) you can let time do its magic and have your feelings fade.

Then there's also the other not-so-old adage: the best way to get over one person is to get under another...