Hi there, I'm Julio, in Ottawa, Canada


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Hello everybody,

I have been non-monogamous for a few years so far, and have explored the swingers world with my (ex-)partner. While swinging is fun, I have discovered that I am liking much more and craving for the deeper human connections that exists in polyamorous relationships.

We separated months ago and now I am looking to rebuild my circle of friends, and especially to find through these friendships one or more partners. I have one very loving partner (she's married and her husband is a great friend too). I like music, good food and cooking, cycling, and travelling. I have a very high sex drive and consider myself a good lover, one who knows how to use his tongue, hands and other organs :) to please my partner, which is my ultimate pleasure.

If you are somewhere close, and are interested, please drop me a line, I will be thrilled to explore new connections.
Greetings Julio,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Sorry to hear about your recent breakup. It sounds like you are interested in the emotional connections that polyamory avails. You have one very loving partner, and I hope you can find more like that. If you have any questions, let us know.

Kevin T., "official greeter" :)


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