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Hi there! I’m new to polyamory but have a cousin in a poly relationship of several years. I have been single for 5 years because I can’t find what I’m looking for. I hope this site can help ☺️
Hi there butterflybaby93, let me welcome you here. If you don't mind me asking, what is it you are looking for
Greetings ButterflyBaby93,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I read on your profile that you are looking for two bi or pan men for an FMM throuple relationship. I must tell you, Polyamory.com tends to not be very effective as a dating site. Mostly we just have discussions about poly, and we give and get poly advice. Now people getting to know each other romantically is not completely unheard-of here, but it is unusual, and certainly starts with a platonic friendship or three. Have a look around on our site, and let us know if you have any questions.

Kevin T., "official greeter" :)


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