Talking to some people about being in an open marriage is pretty easy. Maybe I am close enough with them or they get it for a particular reason making things easy and natural.
Some other people I might not know as well, and they might know me well as the 'husband' but they themselves are single and I so on one hand I am not necessarily looking to hang out with them because I am in an open marriage in some simplified way, but, I would be interested in hanging out while open to the possibility of that happening without getting laid being my explicit goal... BUT I feel like even by asking to hang out they're bringing up the "us" insofar as they know my wife, I feel like keenly by the virtue of knowing me to be an honest guy in my relationship, but sort of probing like "is he trying to cheat??" So I feel like caught between her slyness and my not specifically seeking a date... Should I just like, go all in and say I am seeking a date?
Some other people I might not know as well, and they might know me well as the 'husband' but they themselves are single and I so on one hand I am not necessarily looking to hang out with them because I am in an open marriage in some simplified way, but, I would be interested in hanging out while open to the possibility of that happening without getting laid being my explicit goal... BUT I feel like even by asking to hang out they're bringing up the "us" insofar as they know my wife, I feel like keenly by the virtue of knowing me to be an honest guy in my relationship, but sort of probing like "is he trying to cheat??" So I feel like caught between her slyness and my not specifically seeking a date... Should I just like, go all in and say I am seeking a date?
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