Hurt and somewhat confused

I'm not buying it

I have lurked on this site for the past three years and have read many, many stories from different people. I just can't believe this post. The numerous grammar and spelling errors for a "civil right attorney" are a red flag to me for a start. Not to mention that the poster has now disappeared.:confused:
 
Not the first time we've had someone wander onto this forum to share a cuckold fantasy story...that was my first thought when I read the original post.
 
Yes, could a troll or someone playing out a fantasy. I wondered that too.

But sometimes I reply anyway on the off chance there is a real person in pain. There is no way to truly know.
 
opalescent said:
Yes, could a troll or someone playing out a fantasy. I wondered that too.

But sometimes I reply anyway on the off chance there is a real person in pain. There is no way to truly know.
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That's what always worries me. I've personally gone through some pretty bizarre stuff and been called a troll when describing it - truth is definitely stranger than fiction!

That said, my hinky-meter did start ringing specifically when he mentioned that he works for Amnesty International. It seems a little...suspicious...that he'd mention where he works by name.
 
I guess my policy is, I can't count on everyone to be honest, but I can expect *most* people to be honest (most of the time). If that were not my policy, I fear I'd be a cynic. So I don't mind being wrong (or even oblivious) part of the time. I figure the truth will emerge in due time if it needs to.

I'd like to hear more from FreeRangeTraveler23, but it seems that's not meant to be.
 
kdt26417 said:
I guess my policy is, I can't count on everyone to be honest, but I can expect *most* people to be honest (most of the time). If that were not my policy, I fear I'd be a cynic. So I don't mind being wrong (or even oblivious) part of the time. I figure the truth will emerge in due time if it needs to.

I'd like to hear more from FreeRangeTraveler23, but it seems that's not meant to be.
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I totally feel you. If "the truth" is big enough to rock my world, chances are good that it'll come to light. I'd rather live believing people (or at least keeping an open mind) until they give me a reason to do otherwise. And for me "a reason to do otherwise" may include things like they believe they are telling me the truth, but their truth is so far away from reality as I see it that I simply can't trust it. I get away from those people too, because (to put it simply) if I believe the sky is blue, and they believe the sky is green, then their belief and truthfulness don't matter anymore - they're too different in what they see for me to find a common ground.

That little philosophical meandering aside, it looks like the OP isn't coming back, which may be another damning bit of evidence or evidence of embarrassment. I guess we'll never know. Le sigh.
 
I am back and I am perturbed and dismayed at your questioning of my story. I've been at my brothers house in northern Ontario. I just needed to get away from everything. I left my cell phone and lap top at home to stay disconnected. I am posting from my brothers computer.

I've not heard from my wife. I don't try to call her anymore. When I did Shawn would pick up the phone and tell me that my wife does not wish to talk to me because I hurt her very badly. My wife had no idea how selfish and controlling I was. That it is wrong to think that I own my wifes body and control her sexual behaviour.
 
Shawn made it clear to me on several occasions that he and my wife are in an exclusive relationship and that it was wrong of me to try to take her away from him. He told me to find my own girl.
 
FreeRangeTraveler23, thank you for returning to this thread. If I am wrong in doubting your story, I profusely apologize.

It doesn't sound like things have improved for you. :( I am confused by your wife's sudden and total rejection of you.
 
I am glad you took a time out.

I encourage you to return to work and ease up on the booze. Losing your job at this point would ADD to your problems. Not take away.

Point blank -- you wife cheated on you and ran off with a youth who isn't owning that he allowed himself to become her cheating accomplice. She broke promises. And she's trying to flip it around on you like it's somehow your fault that she cheated on her marriage vows.

Continue not to talk to either.

Instead get yourself checked for STDs and tell doc about your stress/sleep problems. See a counselor and see if your son needs one. See a lawyer for what your options are.

Protect your finances so wife can't empty all joint accounts or rack up debt on joint credit cards.

Galagirl
 
Yeah, definitely get a consultation with a lawyer.
 
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